{"id":42025,"date":"2021-07-06T13:42:00","date_gmt":"2021-07-06T17:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=42025"},"modified":"2021-07-15T09:19:34","modified_gmt":"2021-07-15T13:19:34","slug":"love-and-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>How can you understand love and relationships? How do you build a loving relationship?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The state of your relationships today is because of the love or lack thereof you have been giving. You build loving relationships by showing love and support to others and getting it in return.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read more to discover what you need to know about love and relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Understanding Love and Relationships<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Love rules all relationships, and your interactions with people are the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/gold-standard-vs-fiat-currency\/\">gold standard<\/a> of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-force-of-love\/\">the force of love<\/a>. That is not to say that you love everyone you know or strangers on the street. It means the choice to show love to people is present every time you encounter someone. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/manifesting-money-the-secret\/\">law of attraction<\/a> can\u2019t differentiate between friend, family, or foe. It simply recognizes that you are harnessing the power of love and relationships.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Show and give love to others through support, friendliness, encouragement, benevolence, understanding, and gratitude. <\/strong>That force of love will come back to you, and when it does, it can touch all other aspects of your life. The opposite is also true, of course. Give anger, hate, or any other negative feeling to others, and expect the same to return to you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Your Relationship Is What You Make of It<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Look at your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-people-closest-to-you\/\">close relationships<\/a>. Are they good, strong, and loving? Are they in jeopardy, struggling, or negative? <strong>Whatever state your relationships are in today is the result of the love or a lack thereof you\u2019ve been giving.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to love and relationships, Intimate relationships are often your downfall in bringing love to your life. It\u2019s easy to take your frustrations out on those you care about or are close to because you trust that the relationship will continue regardless of what you do. And although the negativity you show that person might not harm the existence of the relationship, it will harm your life by returning to you as negativity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>It\u2019s Not Them, It\u2019s You<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s a tactic promoted in couple\u2019s therapy to avoid \u201cyou\u201d statements when attempting to resolve a conflict. The idea is that \u201cyou\u201d statements make the other person feel threatened and defensive. Regarding the power of love, \u201cyou\u201d statements also place the responsibility of your happiness on another, and that\u2019s simply not how love and relationships work.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Remember, there is no one but you for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-law-of-attraction-explained\/\">the law of attraction<\/a>. The law is not a referee or mediator. It only picks up your frequency, and you can\u2019t receive what you don\u2019t give. If you place blame on your partner for your unhappiness, that blame is going to manifest in your life, not theirs. And you can\u2019t tell the law of attraction that you can\u2019t show love to someone because they don\u2019t show it back. Even if your partner, parent, child, sibling, or friend has done something to upset you, your reaction is the only thing that counts.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re in a bad place with a relationship, change it by changing how you feel. <strong>Seek out the things you love about the person, even when angry, and feel that love and show gratitude for those things.<\/strong> As that gratitude multiplies, the relationship will get better. You may not understand what\u2019s happening, but the other person will miraculously change and provide more positivity for you to love and be grateful for.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Don\u2019t Choose What You Don\u2019t Love<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Within the giant catalog of life, you will be presented with many options that involve people. You can either choose to love them, not love them, or love part of them. You always have the choice to turn away from someone entirely. But <strong>if you choose to love someone,<\/strong> <strong>love the parts of them you say yes to and turn away from the parts you don\u2019t without judgment.<\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You are under no obligation to love every part of someone. But when you fixate on what you don\u2019t love or rally against it, you create a negative frequency. In contrast, when you only engage with the parts you love, you are able to give love, and it will be returned as more to love about that person. The parts you turn away from might disappear or remain, but they will definitely become outnumbered by the parts you love.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Stay on the love frequency to draw people on similar frequencies to you. <\/strong>The law of attraction won\u2019t bring a negative person as a response to a positive frequency. If you are always on a positive frequency, you can trust that the people you meet are the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/hiring-the-right-people\/\">right people<\/a> for your life.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone has good and bad days, and when you feel frustrated or unhappy, you likely interact with other frustrated or unhappy people. <strong>If you want to experience the happy version of others, be the happy version of yourself first.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How can you understand love and relationships? How do you build a loving relationship? The state of your relationships today is because of the love or lack thereof you have been giving. You build loving relationships by showing love and support to others and getting it in return. Read more to discover what you need to know about love and relationships.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":665,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12,43],"tags":[425],"class_list":["post-42025","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","category-self-improvement","tag-the-power","","tg-column-two"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v24.3 (Yoast SEO v24.3) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give - Shortform Books<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"The secret to love and relationships is that your relationship is what you make of it. Here is how to have loving relationships.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"The secret to love and relationships is that your relationship is what you make of it. Here is how to have loving relationships.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Shortform Books\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2021-07-06T17:42:00+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2021-07-15T13:19:34+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"713\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"380\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Joseph Adebisi\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Joseph Adebisi\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"4 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Joseph Adebisi\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/d8daf45671a09e8745a7a9f50a03b2a0\"},\"headline\":\"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give\",\"datePublished\":\"2021-07-06T17:42:00+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2021-07-15T13:19:34+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/\"},\"wordCount\":835,\"commentCount\":0,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg\",\"keywords\":[\"The Power\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Relationships\",\"Self-Improvement\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/\",\"name\":\"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give - Shortform Books\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2021-07-06T17:42:00+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2021-07-15T13:19:34+00:00\",\"description\":\"The secret to love and relationships is that your relationship is what you make of it. Here is how to have loving relationships.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg\",\"width\":713,\"height\":380,\"caption\":\"Love and Relationships: It Is What You Make of It\"},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/\",\"name\":\"Shortform Books\",\"description\":\"The World&#039;s Best Book Summaries\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Shortform Books\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/logo-equilateral-with-text-no-bg.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/logo-equilateral-with-text-no-bg.png\",\"width\":500,\"height\":74,\"caption\":\"Shortform Books\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/\"}},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/d8daf45671a09e8745a7a9f50a03b2a0\",\"name\":\"Joseph Adebisi\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/IMG_20200519_184908_765-scaled.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/IMG_20200519_184908_765-scaled.jpg\",\"caption\":\"Joseph Adebisi\"},\"description\":\"Joseph has had a lifelong obsession with reading and acquiring new knowledge. He reads and writes for a living, and reads some more when he is supposedly taking a break from work. The first literature he read as a kid were Shakespeare's plays. Not surprisingly, he barely understood any of it. His favorite fiction authors are Tom Clancy, Ted Bell, and John Grisham. His preferred non-fiction genres are history, philosophy, business &amp; economics, and instructional guides.\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/author\/joseph\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO Premium plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give - Shortform Books","description":"The secret to love and relationships is that your relationship is what you make of it. Here is how to have loving relationships.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give","og_description":"The secret to love and relationships is that your relationship is what you make of it. Here is how to have loving relationships.","og_url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/","og_site_name":"Shortform Books","article_published_time":"2021-07-06T17:42:00+00:00","article_modified_time":"2021-07-15T13:19:34+00:00","og_image":[{"width":713,"height":380,"url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Joseph Adebisi","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Joseph Adebisi","Est. reading time":"4 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/"},"author":{"name":"Joseph Adebisi","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/d8daf45671a09e8745a7a9f50a03b2a0"},"headline":"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give","datePublished":"2021-07-06T17:42:00+00:00","dateModified":"2021-07-15T13:19:34+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/"},"wordCount":835,"commentCount":0,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#organization"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg","keywords":["The Power"],"articleSection":["Relationships","Self-Improvement"],"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/","url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/","name":"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give - Shortform Books","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg","datePublished":"2021-07-06T17:42:00+00:00","dateModified":"2021-07-15T13:19:34+00:00","description":"The secret to love and relationships is that your relationship is what you make of it. Here is how to have loving relationships.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg","width":713,"height":380,"caption":"Love and Relationships: It Is What You Make of It"},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/love-and-relationships\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Love and Relationships: You Get What You Give"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/","name":"Shortform Books","description":"The World&#039;s Best Book Summaries","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#organization","name":"Shortform Books","url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/logo-equilateral-with-text-no-bg.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/logo-equilateral-with-text-no-bg.png","width":500,"height":74,"caption":"Shortform Books"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"}},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/d8daf45671a09e8745a7a9f50a03b2a0","name":"Joseph Adebisi","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/#\/schema\/person\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/IMG_20200519_184908_765-scaled.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/IMG_20200519_184908_765-scaled.jpg","caption":"Joseph Adebisi"},"description":"Joseph has had a lifelong obsession with reading and acquiring new knowledge. He reads and writes for a living, and reads some more when he is supposedly taking a break from work. The first literature he read as a kid were Shakespeare's plays. Not surprisingly, he barely understood any of it. His favorite fiction authors are Tom Clancy, Ted Bell, and John Grisham. His preferred non-fiction genres are history, philosophy, business &amp; economics, and instructional guides.","url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/author\/joseph\/"}]}},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/power-of-now-relationship.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42025","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=42025"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42025\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":42139,"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42025\/revisions\/42139"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/665"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=42025"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=42025"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=42025"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}