{"id":40725,"date":"2021-06-27T14:46:33","date_gmt":"2021-06-27T18:46:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=40725"},"modified":"2021-06-30T14:58:03","modified_gmt":"2021-06-30T18:58:03","slug":"how-to-feel-secure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-feel-secure\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Feel Secure (and Why It&#8217;s the Key to Happiness)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Do you want to learn how to feel secure? Why is feeling secure key to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/finding-happiness-in-everyday-life\/\">finding happiness<\/a>? What steps can you take to feel more secure in your life?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to Steve Peters, author of <em>The Chimp Paradox<\/em>, the key to understanding how to feel secure is to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/is-fear-good\/\">confront your fears<\/a> about risk. Another tip that helps is to understand the rules and expectations of your current \u201crealm.\u201d Ultimately, this can help your inner emotional Chimp to feel more secure and happy.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading to learn how to feel secure with the following advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Why Is It Important to Feel Secure?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you don&#8217;t feel safe and secure, you won\u2019t achieve happiness. Your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/emotional-brain\/\">emotional brain<\/a> has a strong drive to protect itself from risk and danger in order to find happiness, but these instincts themselves can prevent you from finding happiness. For example, your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/inner-chimp\/\">inner Chimp<\/a> (emotional brain) might instinctively <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/why-do-people-resist-change\/\">resist change<\/a> because change means things will be unfamiliar and will introduce vulnerabilities into your life, but this might mean you resist pursuing a new career that would ultimately improve your happiness, if changing careers seems scary.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to know how to feel secure, it\u2019s important to <strong>confront your fears about risk.<\/strong> Your Chimp won\u2019t be quieted by you simply ignoring risk, but if you&#8217;re honest about the possibilities\u2014both good and bad\u2014that might result from any decisions you make, your Chimp will be better able to calm down, knowing that you at least are aware of the possible danger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Recognize your fears: <\/strong>Have a conversation with your Chimp about what it fears. Figure out which things your Chimp can and cannot control. For example, you can\u2019t control death or unexpected injury. However, you can control running out of time on a project at work, by improving your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-manage-time-efficiently\/\">time management skills<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>Establish routines: <\/strong>Your Chimp craves familiarity. If you&#8217;re facing a new and uncertain situation, create routines that will make it feel more familiar and therefore safer.<\/li><li><strong>Reach out to your troop for support: <\/strong>Seek reassurance from other people who have your best interests at heart.&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>Accept that every activity carries risk: <\/strong>Your Chimp is most afraid of feeling out of control, but there are many things that your Chimp simply can\u2019t control. When you&#8217;re honest with your Chimp about risks, your Chimp usually settles down, knowing that at the very least, you&#8217;re aware of these risks.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Understanding the Rules<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to know how to feel secure, it\u2019s also important to look at your relationships.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You need to recognize that different people will be in charge of different aspects of your life. When you have disagreements with others, you\u2019ll resolve them quicker and feel more secure if you&#8217;re able to effectively determine:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Who is in charge of each particular situation<\/li><li>What the rules are<\/li><li>Whether or not you agree to those rules<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>There are three realms in which you\u2019ll interact with other people:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Your realm<\/li><li>Another person\u2019s realm<\/li><li>A joint realm<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>The rules will be different for each of these realms. Determining who sets the rules and who must abide by them will in large part determine how you resolve problems and will help you with how to feel secure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Your Realm<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Your realm is any area where you&#8217;re clearly in charge, such as your own home. In your realm, you set and enforce the rules. You expect someone entering your realm to respect your rules and your right to have the final say in decisions\u2014for example, if someone enters your home, you\u2019d expect them to check with you first before starting to cook a meal with your kitchen and equipment.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If your rules and your right to set those rules are not respected, your Chimp will start acting out, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/expressing-anger\/\">expressing anger<\/a>, irritation, or other negative emotions. Therefore, you&#8217;ll have more control&nbsp; over your life\u2014and feel more successful in your endeavors\u2014if you clearly set the rules and enforce them within the realm you command. <strong>When other people clearly understand what you expect, they will less often violate your rules and you&#8217;ll have less conflict.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In your realm, you also need rules that govern your <em>own<\/em> behavior. These are the rules your Human comes up with to keep your Chimp in line. You\u2019ll be far more likely to be happy and successful if you&#8217;re able to establish and maintain clear rules for your Chimp. So, for example, if you establish a clear rule for yourself that you never eat junk food after 9 p.m., you\u2019ll have an easier time controlling your Chimp\u2019s late-night snack urges.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Others\u2019 Realms<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When you&#8217;re in someone else\u2019s realm, you must respect and abide by their rules just as you would expect them to do for your rules in your realm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Respecting someone else\u2019s rules doesn&#8217;t mean acting subservient\u2014it just means respecting their right to have the final say. 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This will help you with how to feel secure:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Personal relationships: <\/strong>In a personal relationship, you interact with the other person because of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/personal-connections\/\">a personal connection<\/a>, such as a friendship or a family bond. Such relationships may not have formal rules or boundaries\u2014you and the other person will decide between yourselves how to behave.&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>Professional relationships: <\/strong>In a professional relationship, you interact with someone because of an official, formalized connection, such as employment or instruction. These relationships have official rules and boundaries, and typically function properly only when personal emotions are excluded from your interactions.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>In both types of realms, there will be aspects of your relationship that will be shared but there will also be aspects that won&#8217;t be shared. 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