{"id":37479,"date":"2021-05-28T12:06:00","date_gmt":"2021-05-28T16:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=37479"},"modified":"2021-06-08T13:40:19","modified_gmt":"2021-06-08T17:40:19","slug":"dependency-in-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/dependency-in-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Dependency in Relationships: Is It Unhealthy?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Is dependency in a relationship unhealthy? Should we be focusing on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-be-more-independent\/\">being more independent<\/a> rather than relying on a partner for support?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a society where <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/maturity-continuum-7-habits\/\">independence<\/a> is celebrated, it can make dependency in a relationship feel like a taboo. However, studies show us that having somebody to depend on actually makes you more independent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading to learn more about how dependency in a relationship makes you more independent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Dependency Doesn&#8217;t Mean Weakness&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Is dependency in relationships a bad thing? Well, although research into <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/attachment-patterns-in-psychology\/\">attachment styles<\/a> is still evolving, we know that the desire for attachment is wired into us. Further, the people we choose as our romantic partners have a huge impact on our ability to thrive in the world. They affect how we feel about ourselves and how much we believe in our own abilities.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Partners who satisfy our basic attachment needs\u2014our deep-seated desires for security, comfort, and love\u2014unwittingly give us the courage to go out into the world and thrive. <\/strong>In contrast, partners who <em>don&#8217;t<\/em> satisfy these needs may stunt our ability to achieve our goals. They may even have a negative effect on our health.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>The Dependency Paradox<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>It may seem like a paradox, but <strong>dependency in relationships will actually make you more independent, bold, and brave. <\/strong>According to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/attachment-psychology\/\">attachment theory<\/a>, when our emotional needs are nourished, we have no reason to be needy or anxious. 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