{"id":35928,"date":"2021-06-03T09:24:19","date_gmt":"2021-06-03T13:24:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=35928"},"modified":"2021-06-03T21:42:34","modified_gmt":"2021-06-04T01:42:34","slug":"dealing-with-rejection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/dealing-with-rejection\/","title":{"rendered":"Dealing With Rejection May Not Be Fun, But It&#8217;s Good"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>How can dealing with rejection be a positive thing if rejection makes you feel bad? Why does rejecting some of your options make you happier?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In a culture where you&#8217;re expected to be open to all new experiences, it can be difficult to learn to say &#8220;no.&#8221; However, when you learn to reject some of your options, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/deal-with-rejection\/\">deal with rejection<\/a> from others, you&#8217;ll actually be happier. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading to learn why dealing with rejection is beneficial. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dealing With <strong>Rejection Is Healthy<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Our culture tells us to always be positive and accepting of everything \u2014 to say yes. <strong>But you have no values if you view everything as equally valuable.<\/strong> Values give your life meaning and purpose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Choosing certain values automatically precludes others. For example, if you choose the value of having a good marriage, you have to reject values that would undermine that, like indiscriminate sex. We\u2019re defined by the values we reject as well as by those we choose. We have to do both. And part of learning rejection is dealing with rejection from others as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It comes back to giving a f*ck about some things, and rejecting or choosing to not give a f*ck about others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">We&#8217;re Happier With Fewer Options, So Reject Some<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>The idea of narrowing our options to be happy is counterintuitive \u2014 <strong>we typically think the path to happiness is having unlimited options and freedom. But meaning comes from caring a lot about select things.<\/strong> Freedom gives you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/too-many-options\/\">too many options<\/a> and you end up caring about nothing in particular.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We actually tend to be happier with less. The more options we have, the less satisfied we are with the options we choose, because we keep thinking of the ones we didn\u2019t choose. You keep wondering if you\u2019d be happier with a different choice. Psychologists call this the paradox of choice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>When faced with an overabundance of options, some people delay making a choice in order to keep their options open as long as possible, or they avoid commitment.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When you continually chase new experiences, there are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-is-hedonic-adaptation\/\">diminishing returns<\/a> \u2014 you gain less satisfaction from each additional experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Traveling is an example. The first country you visit outside your home country makes a lasting impression on you because of your narrower experience. But the dozens of countries you visit after that have less and less impact on you. The same principle applies to acquiring possessions, hobbies, partners, jobs, and friends.<\/li><li>The older and more experienced you get, the less significantly each additional experience affects you. You focus more on choosing the people and experiences that bring you the most satisfaction, and reject those that don\u2019t make the cut.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Rather than following the cultural dictate to keep pursuing a broad range of things or experiences, you should <strong>focus on a narrower range of things and depth of experience<\/strong>. Prioritize <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/quality-is-better-than-quantity\/\">quality over quantity<\/a>. Here\u2019s why:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Commitment to less brings you freedom<\/strong>. It allows you to focus on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-do-you-care-about\/\">what\u2019s most important to you<\/a> and achieve more than you would if your efforts were scattered.<\/li><li>Commitment makes <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/methods-of-decision-making-crucial-conversations\/\">decision-making<\/a> easier and <strong>dispels the fear that by choosing you\u2019re going to miss out<\/strong>. When you\u2019re committed to something, you don\u2019t need to keep pursuing more.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Pursuing a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/importance-of-transferable-skills\/\">broad range of experiences<\/a> may be useful when you\u2019re young and figuring out <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-are-you-curious-about\/\">what interests you<\/a> most. 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People try to avoid being rejected or rejecting others because it makes them feel bad.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But if you don\u2019t practice rejection, you\u2019ll get stuck in situations that make you unhappy, although feeling bad is what you were trying to avoid in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Trying to avoid rejecting or confronting anyone and to accept everything is a form of entitlement. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/sense-of-entitlement\/\">Entitled people<\/a> believe they should feel good all of the time; rejection feels bad, so they avoid it. 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We focus on being likable to the point that we change our personality to suit the circumstances. Superficial communication makes us feel insecure because we don\u2019t know what to believe or trust.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How can dealing with rejection be a positive thing if rejection makes you feel bad? Why does rejecting some of your options make you happier? In a culture where you&#8217;re expected to be open to all new experiences, it can be difficult to learn to say &#8220;no.&#8221; However, when you learn to reject some of your options, and deal with rejection from others, you&#8217;ll actually be happier. 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