common sense<\/a> and wanted to emulate his work ethic, traditional manners (sir, ma\u2019am), and loyalty. Jim loved drinking beer, telling stories, and hosting parties. He valued hard work over flashy appearances. He had a big, commanding personality and a soft spot for underdogs, and dreamed of \u201cmaking it big\u201d and \u201cstriking it rich\u201d\u2014he\u2019d been an athlete who was briefly drafted to the NFL with the Green Bay Packers. Professionally, he worked in the oil industry.<\/p>\n\n\n\nKay McConaughey, Matthew\u2019s mother, came from Altoona, Pennsylvania, but always claimed she was from Trenton, New Jersey, on the grounds that nobody would want to be from someplace called \u201cAltoona.\u201d She was tough, aggressive, and opinionated, and she never carried any stress because she always forgave herself immediately. She had a difficult upbringing, and Matthew says this gave her a powerful drive to make up her own reality and deny anything she didn\u2019t like (as in her claim that she was from Trenton). According to Matthew, this power of denial was one of Kay\u2019s strengths. For example, it apparently helped her defeat two different kinds of cancer without receiving professional medical treatment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jim and Kay were together as a couple for a very long time before they got married. When they finally did take the plunge, it was because Kay handed Jim an invitation to their own wedding and told him he had 24 hours to decide.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It was a difficult relationship.<\/strong> Although they loved each other passionately, over the years they divorced and remarried each other twice. As two equally strong-willed people, when they argued, they did so vigorously and sometimes physically. On four separate occasions, Jim broke Kay\u2019s middle finger when she stuck it in his face.One night, Jim came home from work and soon got into an enormous fight with Kay when she kept calling him fat. This so enraged him that he upended the kitchen table, after which she went to call the police but instead ended up breaking his nose with the telephone and then brandishing a kitchen knife at him. For his part, Jim, nose still bleeding, kept flinging ketchup on Kay from a bottle as he circled her like a matador calling out, \u201cTouch\u00e9!\u201d After they had released their rage, Kay started crying, and suddenly they embraced in the middle of the kitchen, fell to the floor, and made love. A red light in their marriage had turned green. It was a cycle of fighting and reuniting that Matthew and his brothers knew well. Today, Matthew says this tumultuous way of being together, which might seem shocking to other people, was simply the way his parents loved each other<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\nMatthew McConaughey’s parents had a difficult relationship, which was undoubtedly hard for him. Eventually he was able to accept them for who they were and appreciate the lessons they taught him. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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