{"id":34732,"date":"2021-05-12T08:42:33","date_gmt":"2021-05-12T12:42:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=34732"},"modified":"2021-05-24T19:41:25","modified_gmt":"2021-05-24T23:41:25","slug":"what-is-metta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-is-metta\/","title":{"rendered":"What Is Metta or Loving Kindness Meditation?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-we-see-ourselves\/\">What is metta<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eckhart-tolle-meditation-mindfulness\/\">meditation<\/a>? How can practicing it help you develop a calmer, more joyful disposition, and a more positive attitude towards life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In language of Pali, which is closely related to Sanskrit, the word <em>metta <\/em>signifies goodwill and benevolent energy. 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A good analogy for understanding this is the evolution of how a parent views her child:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Loving friendliness &#8211; in the beginning, there is pure love and caring for the child. It is limitless and unconditional.<\/li><li>Compassion &#8211; as the infant makes mistakes and feels pain, the parent feels pain as well. This is not pity, which distances people &#8211; compassion is the hope that the pain should stop and the child not suffer.<\/li><li>Appreciative Joy &#8211; as the child begins achieving things &#8211; making friends, earning awards &#8211;&nbsp; the parent is full of happiness, not of resentment or jealousy.<ul><li>Note that we can celebrate all people\u2019s achievement, even when their success exceeds our own.<\/li><\/ul><\/li><li>Equanimity &#8211; as the child becomes an adult, the parent must sit back, knowing they have done all they could for their child. They can no longer steer the child\u2019s life.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Even for the most ornery and unpleasant people you know, wish them peace and discover their potential for loving friendliness.You don\u2019t know their background or experiences, and you may be misinterpreting their behavior.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The following metta recitations are excerpts from the book <em>Mindfulness in the Plain English.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Start With Yourself<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Start by showing loving friendliness to yourself. Make peace with your shortcomings. Embrace your weaknesses.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u201cMay my mind be filled with the thoughts of loving friendliness, compassion, appreciative joy, and equanimity. May I be generous. May I be gentle. May I be relaxed. May I be happy and peaceful. May I be healthy. May my heart become soft. May my words be pleasing to others. May my actions be kind.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>May all that I see, hear, smell, taste, touch, and think help me to cultivate loving friendliness, compassion, appreciative joy, and equanimity. May all these experiences help me to cultivate thoughts of generosity and gentleness. May they all help me to relax. May they inspire friendly behavior. May these experiences be a source of peace and happiness. May they help me be free from fear, tension, anxiety, worry, and restlessness.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>No matter where I go in the world, in any direction, may I greet people with happiness, peace, and friendliness. May I be protected in all directions from greed, anger, aversion, hatred, jealousy, and fear.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Extend Outwards<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>All beings want happiness and less suffering. This connects you with the rest of the living universe. 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