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If you&#8217;re a Habiteer or even just somebody trying to make a positive change in your life, then don&#8217;t downplay the importance of celebrating your tiny successes. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading to learn why Tiny Habit celebrations are so important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Tiny Habits <\/em><strong>Celebration<\/strong>s<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We change best when we feel good. But feeling good can be more complicated than you might think. How do we make ourselves feel good about a new habit? In the most challenging cases, how can we cut through the years of negative emotional baggage and \u201cself-trash-talk\u201d that have accumulated around this behavior? The answer is Step 6 in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/behavior-design\/\">Behavior Design<\/a> process: <em>Tiny Habits<\/em> celebrations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Celebration is absolutely fundamental in Tiny Habits<\/strong>. Author BJ Fogg writes in this chapter that if a reader takes away one thing from the book, it should be the value of celebrating our tiny successes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite this, many Habiteers (even professional coaches) are inclined to skip it. Some don\u2019t take it seriously because it doesn\u2019t seem important. Others feel self-conscious or silly about celebrating.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because of this,<strong> celebrating is the very first skill you should tackle when starting out with Tiny Habits<\/strong>. Once people implement this step, it changes their whole outlook. Many actually start wanting to do their new habits just so they can celebrate afterwards.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Feel Successful<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Celebration is the core of Fogg Behavior Maxim #2: <em>Help people feel successful. <\/em>Note that this isn\u2019t \u201cHelp people <em>be <\/em>successful.\u201d Actual success, externally measured, isn\u2019t important. It\u2019s the ability to <em>feel <\/em>successful that we\u2019re aiming for\u2014which for many of us can be even more challenging than achieving external success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Celebration is important because through celebration we cultivate the important skill of making ourselves feel good. This is important not only when working with new habits, but also in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-build-emotional-resilience\/\">building emotional resilience<\/a> in the face of challenging life circumstances.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Above all, <strong>celebration is a way to practice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-go-easy-on-yourself\/\">being kind to yourself<\/a><\/strong>. Many of us could use some extra skills in this area. 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