{"id":28983,"date":"2021-03-09T12:03:27","date_gmt":"2021-03-09T16:03:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=28983"},"modified":"2021-03-22T21:12:42","modified_gmt":"2021-03-23T01:12:42","slug":"maybe-you-should-talk-to-someone-characters","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/maybe-you-should-talk-to-someone-characters\/","title":{"rendered":"Maybe You Should Talk to Someone: Characters"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Who are the main<em> Maybe You Should Talk to Someone<\/em> characters in Lori Gottlieb&#8217;s memoir? How do their stories unfold throughout the book?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em><em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone <\/em><\/em>is a memoir by psychotherapist and author Lori Gottlieb. There are five main characters in <em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone<\/em>, whose stories are interwoven with Lori&#8217;s own narrative about her breakup incident and her time in psychotherapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read about the main <em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone <\/em>characters and how their stories unfolded throughout the book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone<\/em> Characters<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone <\/em>is a memoir by Lori Gottlieb, an author and therapist, about a particularly difficult time in her life\u2014a time when she sought out therapy herself\u2014and common struggles that people have. There are five main characters in <em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone<\/em>, whose issues relate to Lori&#8217;s issues in some way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">John the Jerk<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>John is one of Lori\u2019s patients. He\u2019s a bigshot in the TV industry who suffers from anger issues and thinks everyone he meets\u2014including his wife\u2014is stupid. The only things he seems genuinely fond of are his two daughters and the family dog. <strong>His issues echo Lori\u2019s sense of loss and her fear of letting others hurt her.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>John first comes to Lori because he\u2019s having trouble sleeping. He\u2019s abrasive and rude, and he openly breaks Lori\u2019s rules about therapy: He uses his cell phone during sessions and orders food to eat while they\u2019re talking. He\u2019s emotionally distant, insulting and blaming everyone except himself for his problems. Lori eventually realizes that this is a defense mechanism: <strong>If everything is someone else\u2019s fault, then John doesn\u2019t have to do the hard work of looking inward and changing himself.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It takes months of work, but eventually Lori learns that John used to also have a young son named Gabe. Gabe was killed in a car accident that John alternately blamed himself and his wife for, though it turned out the driver who hit them was drunk. Since then, John has tried to repress his feelings and keep working to support himself and his family. While he\u2019s been highly successful professionally, it\u2019s taken a heavy toll on his emotional state and his family life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By the end of therapy, John has begun to open up with Lori and with his family. He used to forbid any mention of Gabe at home, but now he and his wife have had some cathartic conversations about their son. They\u2019ve also started attending couples therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>John&#8217;s major revelation is that he doesn\u2019t <em>always <\/em>have to be one thing or another: He doesn\u2019t always have to be the good guy or the bad guy, and he doesn\u2019t always have to be happy or grieving. <strong>Everything comes and goes, including happiness, and the important thing is to accept whatever each moment brings.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Julie the Cancer Patient<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Julie is a young woman who learned she had cancer shortly after getting married. While at first the treatment seemed to be working and her disease went into remission, it soon came back. This time, doctors gave her one to five years to live. She\u2019s depressed because she feels like her life is ending right as it was about to truly start. <strong>Her problems echo Lori\u2019s fears of mortality and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/no-purpose-in-life\/\">living a meaningless life<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At first, Julie is angry at the unfairness of her situation. Through her sessions with Lori, she eventually makes peace with the fact that nobody knows how his or her life will turn out or even how long it will be. She comes to appreciate what she still has: a loving husband, many close friends, her strength, and a sound mind\u2014for however long they last\u2014and even Lori, her therapist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With Lori\u2019s encouragement, Julie creates a bucket list for herself; not just a list of things she\u2019d like to do \u201csomeday,\u201d but a short, achievable plan for the rest of her life. 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Lori goes to her funeral, which is attended by hundreds of people from all different parts of Julie\u2019s life. Even though she\u2019d died very young, Julie had a remarkable impact on the people around her. <strong>One of the last things Julie had asked was whether Lori would remember her; even years later, while writing <\/strong><strong><em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone<\/em><\/strong><strong>, she still does.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Rita\u2019s Loneliness<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Out of all the <em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone <\/em>characters, Lori feels most connected to Rita, a woman in her 60s who is several times divorced, estranged from her children, and in despair because she thinks it\u2019s too late to turn her life around. During their first session together, she tells Lori that if her life doesn\u2019t improve within a year, she\u2019s planning to end it. <strong>Her problems echo Lori\u2019s fears of mortality and loneliness.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rita\u2019s first husband was an abusive alcoholic, and her greatest regret is failing to protect their kids from him. Similarly, the children have never forgiven her for the way they were raised. She lives alone in a small apartment, where she spends her days painting, napping, and watching TV. She is intensely jealous of the happy family across the hall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lori initially encourages Rita to try reaching out and connecting with people, romantically and otherwise. Rita tries using Tinder for a while, but she is disgusted by the aging bodies of the men in her age group. Lori continues trying to get her to reach out to people, though even Lori isn\u2019t sure what kind of new life Rita will be able to make for herself at this point. <strong>This issue parallels Lori\u2019s uncertainty about her own advancing age and whether she\u2019ll be able to find another romantic partner at this point in her life.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rita eventually confesses that there had been a man named Myron in her life, and she\u2019d been very fond of him. He\u2019d even created a website for her to show off her art. However, their relationship had been purely platonic. Right as Rita was considering bringing up romance with Myron, he\u2019d gotten together with another woman he met online. Rita immediately cut off all contact with him, and that incident was what drove her to seek out therapy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Over time, Rita becomes friends with the family across the hall. Their children are enthralled by her artwork, and with the parents\u2019 help, Rita adds an online store to her website to sell her creations.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At around the same time, Myron\u2019s relationship with the other woman ends because he realizes that he doesn\u2019t enjoy spending time with her the way he did with Rita. He tries to reestablish contact, but Rita storms off.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aside from Myron, Rita seems to be getting everything she wanted: She now has companionship, and she\u2019s creating art for people who appreciate it\u2014and her. However, she\u2019s showing signs of <em>cherophobia<\/em>: fear of joy. She explains that she\u2019s always waiting for something to go wrong, like it always has in the past. <strong>She\u2019s psychologically unable to let herself be happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The next major step Rita takes is writing a letter to Myron talking about her past in detail, and explaining why she reacted the way she did. She\u2019s sure that once Myron knows who she \u201creally\u201d is\u2014in other words, who Rita <em>thinks<\/em> she is\u2014he\u2019ll be disgusted and abandon her. Lori asks Rita whether the letter is really for Myron, or if it\u2019s what she wants to say to her children. The answer is that it\u2019s both.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Similar to how John is able to reconnect with people after opening up about his son Gabe, Rita\u2019s cathartic reading of the letter drops some of her defenses and lets her make meaningful connections again.<\/strong> Myron doesn\u2019t abandon her, and they end up together.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rita also eventually makes contact with most of her children again. By giving up the need for forgiveness and trying to create new relationships with her children instead of fixing the old ones, she\u2019s been able to reconnect with all but the youngest\u2014he\u2019s still too angry to let her back into his life, and Rita must accept that that might never change.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, far from the depressed, suicidal woman she\u2019d been at the beginning of the book, Rita manages to create a happy and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/living-a-fulfilled-life\/\">fulfilling life<\/a> for herself, even though she\u2019s already pushing 70. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Charlotte\u2019s Relationship Troubles<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Out of all the <em>Maybe Should Talk to Someone <\/em>characters, Charlotte is the youngest. She is only twenty-one but she feels as though she has already ruined her life because of her drinking problem and a history of getting into bad relationships. She finds herself attracted to emotionally unavailable people and always ends up getting hurt. Charlotte\u2019s connections to Lori\u2019s issues are perhaps the least obvious of all her patients; <strong>however, her relationship struggles and her inability to get emotionally invested in healthy people and habits echo Lori\u2019s painful break-up and search for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/fulfilling-work\/\">meaningful work<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These problems are evident throughout the book as Charlotte has an on-again, off-again fling with another patient she sits with in the waiting room. The Dude, as she calls him, strings her along for months. He repeatedly breaks up with, then gets back together with, another woman, leaving Charlotte to get hurt over and over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Charlotte also has a habit of asking Lori for advice about every little problem she has, from what she should do about an upcoming presentation to whether she should call a doctor about an injured toe. Lori believes this habit, and Charlotte\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/relationship-marriage-problems-5-love-languages\/\">relationship problems<\/a>, are the result of having had an unsettled home life. Her parents were often absent, and when they were around, they frequently drank and fought with each other.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This had two major effects on Charlotte\u2019s psyche: <strong>First, she had to act like an adult long before she was ready, and Lori thinks she\u2019s trying to compensate for that by acting like a helpless child now; second, she subconsciously associates love with anxiety and uncertainty.<\/strong> That\u2019s why she\u2019s always attracted to people who end up hurting her, and when she meets a man with the qualities she claims to want\u2014emotional stability and reliability\u2014she doesn\u2019t feel a \u201cspark.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, perhaps the strangest thing about Charlotte is that she seems to think her real addiction isn\u2019t to alcohol or emotionally distant men, but to therapy. Lori comes to realize that it\u2019s because therapy is a perfect setting for someone like Charlotte, who both craves and fears <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-human-connection\/\">human connection<\/a>. She\u2019s able to open up freely while in therapy, but at the end of her hour she always gets to leave.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After months of treatment, Charlotte makes two significant steps: She asks Lori to recommend an outpatient alcohol abuse treatment program, and she asks to move her appointment time so she won\u2019t be sitting with The Dude. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The End<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>At the end of the book, all <em>Maybe You Should Talk to Someone <\/em>characters come to terms with their issues. John makes peace with the death of his son Gabe and starts attending relationship counseling with his wife. 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