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Why do accomplished women so often belittle themselves? Why do women find it so hard to give merit to their own victories?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Many accomplished women consciously or unconsciously belittle themselves to make others feel more comfortable. Ambitious women may also hesitate to admit their dreams out loud out of fear of being judged or mocked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Keep reading to learn why accomplished women should start celebrating their success instead of hiding it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Accomplished Women Shouldn’t Hide<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Many accomplished women consciously or unconsciously make themselves smaller to make others feel more comfortable<\/strong>. Becoming smaller means they downplay accomplishments and goals to be better liked and accepted. They mute themselves for fear of being criticized by others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, Girl, Wash Your Face <\/em>author, Rachel Hollis, met very accomplished women who called their businesses a \u201chobby\u201d to keep expectations low or because they were afraid of being judged.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some ambitious women hesitate to try something new because they fear failure. They stay silent when they have so much to contribute. They hesitate to admit their dreams out loud out of fear of being judged or mocked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Part of the problem is that when other people don\u2019t understand us, they\u2019re not fully supportive. Working, accomplished women fight their way through a patriarchal system of men who don\u2019t understand ambitious women. Working moms get backlash from stay-at-home moms and others because they don\u2019t understand a woman\u2019s desire to work. To gain the support of others, we try to be what they want, often hiding parts of our personalities and who we truly are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Accomplished Women Hiding May Stem From Childhood<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Hollis also spent years making herself smaller to fit into the expectations of others. Her father wasn\u2019t verbal with praise unless she did something well, but mostly he wanted silence. She learned not to make noise if he didn\u2019t want to interact. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her dad didn\u2019t understand his young daughter, so he unintentionally muted parts of her that made him uncomfortable. He called her \u201clittle girl\u201d disparagingly, implying she didn\u2019t know what she was talking about, didn\u2019t understand life. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This attitude affected her into adulthood, with the tendency to make herself small showing up in various ways. For example, if you asked her what she did for a living, she\u2019d say she had a lifestyle blog — not a media company she built from the ground up with millions of visitors, while also speaking, writing and raising a family. She had learned not to be boastful, because as a child she was told she was just a little girl who didn\u2019t know what she was talking about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She turned down many growth opportunities for her business out of fear of failing, worrying she wasn\u2019t smart or good enough to lead her company into bigger waters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stop Living as Half of Yourself<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Rachel Hollis came to realize that she was making herself small, but in truth she had big dreams<\/a> and goals that required faith, courage and audacity. She wanted her lifestyle media agency to be huge — positively affecting the lives of millions of women and improving the lives of her employees. She wanted her company to uplift women, changing the world<\/a> for the better. Hollis wanted accomplished women to talk about their achievements with pride.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She realized she couldn\u2019t achieve her big goals until she embraced all sides of her personality — even the ones that might make others uncomfortable. You can\u2019t be big and small at the same time. <\/strong>When women mute themselves to make others more comfortable, they are denying who they are truly meant to be. In terms of the author\u2019s Christian perspective, God made us unique and special, and we are fully meant to explore our dreams and talents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She vowed to stop making herself small — she would no longer live as half herself because her whole self is hard to handle for some. She battled through \u201cmommy guilt\u201d and came to accept and embrace the fact that she loved working.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When she adopted her daughter, she vowed to raise her to embrace all aspects of herself and never mute herself to morph into someone else\u2019s idea of who she should be. She is raising her daughter with a new narrative, one that says one parent isn\u2019t solely responsible for who her daughter will become, and that having a mom with a full-time job doesn\u2019t mean she isn\u2019t loved and cared for. Her daughter will understand that moms can have a career, and it doesn\u2019t affect how much they love their children or how committed they are to their families.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hollis\u2019s sons will be told by society that they have endless options; she wants her daughter to have this too. She can work or stay at home — whatever her choice is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

These messages apply to all women: When you acknowledge and accept who you truly are<\/a>, you won\u2019t lose yourself. Understand that your dreams are a road map to your calling, so don\u2019t let someone else\u2019s opinion of you determine your worth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tips on Living as Your Full Self<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Remember these strategies when vowing to live as your full self:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  • It\u2019s OK to offend people<\/strong>. Many women are people-pleasers, but this can stunt our progress. If someone approves or doesn\u2019t approve of you, that\u2019s not your problem.<\/li>
  • Make a bold choice<\/strong>. You get to decide who you are every day. (For example, the author got a tattoo to symbolize that she is exactly who she wants to be.)<\/li>
  • Seek inspiration from books, podcasts, or speakers<\/strong>. Consume content that speaks to areas in which you want to improve yourself, and you\u2019ll gain nuggets of wisdom.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n

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