{"id":24176,"date":"2021-01-17T09:55:17","date_gmt":"2021-01-17T13:55:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=24176"},"modified":"2021-01-24T22:44:03","modified_gmt":"2021-01-25T02:44:03","slug":"ego-thoughts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/ego-thoughts\/","title":{"rendered":"Ego Thoughts: They&#8217;re Tempting and Harmful"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What are ego thoughts? How can entertaining great thoughts about yourself and your future compromise your chances of making it a reality?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego thoughts are tempting to entertain because it feels good to fantasize about receiving a long-awaited reward or a coveted title. But when these thoughts monopolize your time, they prevent you from thinking productively about your goals.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading for more about ego thoughts and how they can compromise your chances of achieving success.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Are Ego Thoughts?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego can prompt, leading us to spend more time thinking about what we will do with success than on how we will achieve it. It feels better to entertain ego thoughts about yourself than to think about the doubts you might have about your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/career-path-development\/\">career path<\/a>, or about the work you need to do to achieve success. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego thoughts can paralyze you in three ways:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>They shift your focus from your task to your \u201cgreatness.\u201d <\/strong>When you\u2019re convinced of your own greatness, you\u2019re more concerned with defending that image than completing your task. For example, the Civil War General George McClellan\u2014widely acknowledged to be possibly the worst general in the Union army\u2014was so inflated with unearned confidence that he spent all his time making grandiose plans and defending his lack of victories to his superiors. He focused on trying to convince the world of his legacy and neglected to actually earn his legacy by winning battles.<\/li><li><strong>They stop you from taking actual action out of a fear that your plan must be perfect. <\/strong>When you have an inflated sense of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/sense-of-self-importance\/\">self-importance<\/a>, you might be reluctant to embark on a course of action that doesn\u2019t live up to the standards you envision for yourself. For example, a recent Harvard grad might find herself unable to decide on a career path, as no path seems to live up to her inflated sense of her own potential. Her hesitation and wavering might cause her to miss out on valuable job opportunities.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li><li><strong>They erect a barrier between you and reality. <\/strong>Again, General McClellan provides an example: Convinced of his own superiority, he ignored facts (grossly misjudging the size of his enemy\u2019s army) and was consumed by imagined threats (such as nonexistent conspiracies from his allies). His inability to see reality instead of an imagined world in which his greatness saved the day led to resounding defeats by Confederate generals Robert E. Lee and Stonewall Jackson.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Don\u2019t Be Prideful<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ego leads to pride, and pride interferes with your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/perceiving-reality\/\">perception of reality<\/a>. 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