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What happened during Elizabeth Gilbert’s divorce? Why did she get a divorce, and how did it start her journey in Eat Pray Love<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elizabeth Gilbert’s divorce quickly turned unpleasant. She still loved her husband, but realized she was in a life she didn’t want. By the end of the divorce, she was broke and unhappy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Read more about Elizabeth Gilbert, divorce, and how she got started on her journey in Eat Pray Love<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Elizabeth Gilbert: Divorce and a New Future<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Elizabeth Gilbert found herself on the bathroom floor of the home she shared with her husband four years before starting her spiritual journey. It was three o\u2019clock in the morning. This was the 47th night in a row that she\u2019d slipped out of bed and hid in the bathroom. What thrust her out of bed was the realization that she didn\u2019t want to be married anymore.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gilbert and her husband had dated for two years and been married for six. They lived along the Hudson Valley in Upstate New York and were working toward a Norman Rockwell existence. They wanted children, dinners around the table, and vegetable gardens in the yard. Gilbert had a wandering spirit, but she and her husband assumed that by 30 years old, she would be ready to settle into real life. She wasn\u2019t. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Year after year, Gilbert waited for the proverbial \u201cticking clock\u201d to kick in. She believed she should want a baby. That\u2019s what people did\u2014they got married, had kids, and lived happily ever after. But as time stretched on, she realized her idea of happily-ever-after looked very different. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Each time a pregnancy test came back negative, she was relieved. She had friends with new babies and saw the joy they felt. The last time she felt that kind of joy was when she was sent to New Zealand on a writing assignment. She decided she couldn\u2019t have a baby until she felt more joy about it than a free trip to New Zealand.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But she wasn\u2019t unhappy in her marriage simply because of an obligation to have a baby. There were several issues (none of which Gilbert discusses) that made her feel trapped. She and her husband had both noticed something changing in her over the past months. Their relationship had become emotionally volatile and exhausting. Still, she loved him and feared hurting him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Each night, Gilbert hid in the bathroom because of her confusion, shame, and guilt about wanting to escape her marriage. But on this particular night, something happened that hadn\u2019t before. Down on her knees, sobbing, Gilbert started to pray. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

From Lovers to Enemies<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Gilbert ended her marriage seven months after that night on the floor. She thought the worst part would be telling her husband the marriage was over, but that was shortsighted. Elizabeth Gilbert’s divorce proceedings and dissolving relationship were far worse. She and her husband became different people after the separation, and each was equally shocked by the cruelty of the other.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Elizabeth Gilbert wanted the divorce to be amicable and swift. She wanted to sell their house and split everything down the middle. When her husband refused this offer, she suggested he keep all the assets and she keep the blame. Still, he said no. He didn\u2019t provide an alternative scenario. He simply moved to their Manhattan apartment and told her she was a horrible person. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gilbert felt horrible. She felt so guilty that she didn\u2019t think she deserved anything, not even her salary. She was experiencing an awakening and wanted things to be easy. She didn\u2019t want to be engrossed in a contentious battle. For these reasons, Gilbert didn\u2019t hire a lawyer right away. She put her life on hold that summer while she waited for her husband\u2019s terms. But her life moved forward anyway. She found a new love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A Plan for the Future<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Gilbert had decided on a plan for her future by the time she returned home. She couldn\u2019t ignore the premonition of the Balinese medicine man and needed to find a way to get to Indonesia again. The trouble was she also wanted to visit Italy and India. The other trouble was she wasn\u2019t yet free to travel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gilbert decided to spend four months in each location. She would write about her experiences succumbing to rapture in Italy, to spiritual devotion in India, and to the confluence of both in Indonesia. <\/strong>The fact that each country started with \u201cI\u201d was mere coincidence, albeit an auspicious one. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The second problem was beyond the scope of her decision-making<\/a> abilities. Her husband held the power in their divorce, and a year and a half later, he was still holding her hostage in their marriage. Gilbert finally hired a lawyer and applied legal pressure. They accused her husband of mental cruelty. Gilbert had already agreed to turn over all their joint assets, but her husband wanted more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In spring 2003, Gilbert\u2019s husband requested royalties from her book sales and future earnings, as well as part of her retirement fund. All of this was added to a cash settlement and ownership of both properties. Gilbert saw the line in the sand. She could lose everything and be contractually attached to this man for the rest of her life or stand up for herself and fight.<\/strong> She chose the latter. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Month after month passed with no agreement. If her husband didn\u2019t agree to a reduced settlement, they\u2019d fight it out in court. This would cost both dearly financially and emotionally. It would also mean Gilbert would be stuck in New York for another year. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gilbert grew depressed and anxious. Around this time, she was sent on a tour for the release of a paperback edition of one of her books. A friend joined her on the cross-country road trip. It was exactly the escape she needed. Still, for Elizabeth Gilbert, divorce hung heavy over her head. On one of their long drives, her friend told her she should petition God for help. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gilbert wrote a petition asking God to help end her marriage and finalize the divorce.<\/strong> She said it was a matter of health for the universe to allow two souls to finally be free from this dark battle. She and her friend imagined hundreds of people, including family, friends, the Clintons, and other celebrities, signing the petition. When she couldn\u2019t think of any more names, she went to sleep. Hours later, she woke up to her phone ringing. Her husband had signed the papers. Elizabeth Gilbert’s divorce was over, and she was free. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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