{"id":20249,"date":"2020-12-04T09:35:14","date_gmt":"2020-12-04T13:35:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=20249"},"modified":"2020-12-13T02:19:32","modified_gmt":"2020-12-13T06:19:32","slug":"eat-pray-love-journey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eat-pray-love-journey\/","title":{"rendered":"The Eat Pray Love Journey Begins With Heartbreak"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What is the <em>Eat Pray Love<\/em> journey about? Why does Elizabeth Gilbert embark on this journey in the first place?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em>Eat Pray Love<\/em>, the journey is what matters, not the destination. In fact, Elizabeth Gilbert has three destinations, and each one teaches her something important about life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Find out why Elizabeth Gilbert began her <em>Eat Pray Love<\/em> journey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The <em>Eat Pray Love<\/em> Journey: Loss and Divorce<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>For nearly two months, Gilbert snuck out of bed each night in her home in Upstate New York that she shared with her husband. She hid in the bathroom, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/feeling-ashamed\/\">feeling ashamed<\/a>, confused, and guilty about wanting to be free of her marriage. <strong>One night, she became so overwhelmed that she cried and prayed for the first time in her life.<\/strong> She asked God for help and a sign of what to do. Suddenly, she heard a voice. It sounded like her voice but also different. The voice told her to go to bed and rest. She would need it for what was to come, and the <em>Eat Pray Love<\/em> journey she didn&#8217;t know about yet. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seven months later, Gilbert separated from her husband. She wanted the divorce to be amicable, but her husband was too hurt. He refused all settlement offers and held her hostage in the marriage for years. Gilbert was confused, alone, and saddened by her husband\u2019s hatred of her, but her spirits were lifted by a new love\u2014David.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Gilbert fell hard and fast for David. Her husband had taken both their house and apartment in the city, so she moved into David\u2019s Manhattan apartment right away. Their love was passionate and playful, but things changed after 9\/11. The stress of her divorce and the attack on her city was too much for Gilbert, and she became needy.<strong> The more she needed David\u2019s love, the more he withheld it.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Seeking Solace<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>After her first breakup with David, Gilbert fell into a deep depression. She became suicidal and started taking antidepressants. The only thing that helped was her newfound interest in an Indian Yogi Guru. <strong>She started to learn about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eckhart-tolle-meditation-mindfulness\/\">meditation<\/a> and decided she wanted to visit this Guru\u2019s Ashram one day.<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During this time, Gilbert also started learning Italian. She\u2019d always wanted to, and now seemed as good a time as ever. She found so much joy speaking the sensual Italian words and phrases, she wondered what immersing herself in the culture might do for her. 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