{"id":166,"date":"2019-07-01T21:18:48","date_gmt":"2019-07-02T01:18:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=166"},"modified":"2022-04-13T23:06:32","modified_gmt":"2022-04-14T03:06:32","slug":"amygdala-hijack-emotional-hijackings","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/amygdala-hijack-emotional-hijackings\/","title":{"rendered":"Amygdala Hijack: Why Emotions Take Over"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Have you ever looked back on an emotional response you had and thought, \u201cI don\u2019t know what came over me!\u201d This is what Goleman would refer to as a limbic or emotional hijacking, where the emotional center of your brain takes over without notice.<\/strong> We usually associate it with negative emotions, but it can be positive, too–if you\u2019ve ever laughed uncontrollably and felt like you couldn\u2019t stop, that\u2019s a hijacking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Research shows that we unconsciously understand what something is and make a value judgement as to whether it\u2019s a good or bad thing in the first few milliseconds<\/em> of perceiving it.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When people who are afraid of snakes are shown photos of snakes, their skin breaks out in sweat even if they say they aren\u2019t afraid. Their skin still does this even if the photos are flashed so quickly they don\u2019t register they\u2019ve seen it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This has to do with how the brain is set up, and the balance between the epicenters of our two minds: the amygdala (the center of emotions) and the neocortex (the center of reason).
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The Amygdala<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

There are two amygdalas on either side of the brainstem, at the base of the limbic system<\/a>. The amygdala is the command center of our emotions, responsible for interpreting emotional signals and for storing our emotional memory. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The human amygdala is much larger than the amygdala in our closest relatives, nonhuman primates. Animals and humans who\u2019ve suffered damage to or the severing of their amygdalas completely lose the ability to feel emotion or understand emotion in others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The amygdala is constantly on the lookout for danger or dislike–for negative emotional content. If it perceives a threat to our emotional health<\/a> or physical safety, it reacts instantaneously and sends a crisis message out to the entire brain – causing an amygdala hijacking. <\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The brain is set up so that sensory information<\/a> from the eye or ear goes first to the amygdala and then to the neocortex, meaning the amygdala can respond while the neocortex is putting the information through several levels of consideration<\/strong>. And since the amygdala is also the center of emotional memory, this is why traumatic emotional responses can stick with us even when we aren\u2019t aware we have them. The more intense the signals sent to the amygdala, the stronger the amygdala imprints the memory. (Shortform note: We discuss trauma more in-depth in the next section.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Amygdala Hijackings and Childhood<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Once the amygdala has an emotional memory of a certain situation, any new situation that resembles the old one will trigger the amygdala\u2019s stress response<\/a>, whether the situations are ultimately similar or not. For instance, this is why many adults who got bit by a dog when they were kids still fear dogs: though it\u2019s not the same dog and though the person might not be in any danger of getting bit, the amygdala triggers the same emotional response to the sight of <\/strong>any<\/strong><\/em> remotely similar dog<\/strong>. Cue the emotional hijacking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The amygdala is already close to being fully formed at birth, while our neocortex is not. This means our rational mind has more time to change and develop, but our emotional mind is solidified at a very young age: many of our strongest emotional memories occur in the first few years of our lives when we have not developed language or logic to understand them or process them.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So our childhood experiences deeply influence our emotional wellbeing as adults, and can cause amygdala hijackings today well after the danger has passed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Though many people believe that infants or children won\u2019t remember what happened, this is not true: though they might not be able to recall exactly what happened, they will always carry with them how their experiences made them feel. Our childhood emotional experiences and how our parents respond to them lay the blueprint for how we respond to emotional experiences as adults–and the more traumatic the experience, such as physical abuse or emotional neglect, the more they affect our ability to be emotionally healthy adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Neocortex<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There\u2019s a moderator for the amygdala at the other end of the neocortex, in the prefrontal lobe just behind the forehead. This area regulates emotional responses, quells feelings in order to think more rationally about the situation at hand, and recalls the appropriate response if the amygdala analyzes the situation wrong and causes an emotional hijacking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n