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While <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-big-book\/\">The Big Book<\/a> says that AA need not be religous, Step 3 does reference God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read more about AA surrender and what it means in and out of a religous context.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Step 3 of AA: Surrender<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The AA surrender step is third in the Twelve-Step Program. You turn your individual will over to a higher power. You have faith that the higher power will help you recover.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Big Book has this specific phrasing: \u201cGod, I offer myself to Thee\u2013to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy Power, Thy Love, and Thy Way of life. May I do Thy will always!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Alcoholics Anonymous Is Not Religious<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>AA is not a religious organization. It demands <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/believe-in-something-bigger-than-yourself\/\">belief in a higher power<\/a>, but you can choose your own conception of what that means, whether that\u2019s a religious god or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You need only believe in some power that is greater than yourself, because, as a mere individual, you have no effective mental defense against drinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Big Book specifically addresses agnostics and atheists:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u201cHalf of us thought we were atheists or agnostics.\u201d<\/li><li>\u201cIf a mere code of morals or a better philosophy of life were sufficient to overcome alcoholism, many of us would have recovered long ago. 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