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Do you want to know how to take accountability in relationships<\/a>? How can you adapt to ever-changing friendships over time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although relationships involve multiple people, it’s ultimately up to you to create the relationships you want in your life. Mel Robbins uses the Let Them Theory to show a way you can both release control and set boundaries<\/a> in romantic and platonic relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get ready to build the relationships you deserve by using the simple phrases, “Let Them” and “Let Me.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Take Responsibility in Relationships<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Saying \u201cLet Them\u201d and \u201cLet Me\u201d gives you a way to take accountability in relationships<\/strong>. Other people\u2019s words and actions can send us on an emotional rollercoaster: When we internalize the negative things they say and do, we often feel inferior. For example, if your colleague walks into the office one morning and immediately snaps at you, you\u2019d likely feel you must have done something wrong that justifies their rudeness. But they might just be in a bad mood because their shoelace broke or they missed their train\u2014circumstances that don\u2019t involve you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Conversely, it can make you feel superior to just think \u201clet them\u201d and dismiss your colleague\u2019s behavior\u2014thinking you\u2019re the bigger person who\u2019s above such pettiness or judging them for being rude. But that wouldn\u2019t be a productive way forward, as it still involves judgment rather than true acceptance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Robbins explains that you\u2019re responsible for building the relationships you want with other people<\/strong>. In the situation with your grumpy colleague, that means that you wouldn\u2019t respond to their rudeness in kind, but instead look at them with empathy and figure out how you can make their day better. Robbins notes that if you say \u201cLet Them\u201d without following it up with \u201cLet Me,\u201d then you can end up feeling isolated from others. It\u2019s by saying \u201cLet Me\u201d that you exercise your agency to be the person you want to be\u2014for example, the kind of coworker who speaks to your colleagues with the consideration they deserve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How Humans\u2014and Whales\u2014Navigate Stormy Seas<\/strong>

Robbins\u2019s advice to not just accept others\u2019 behavior (\u201cLet Them\u201d) but to actively choose intentional and empathetic responses (\u201cLet Me\u201d) aligns with neuroscience research on specialized brain cells called spindle neurons<\/a>, or von Economo neurons (VENs). These neurons seem to exist in just a handful of species<\/a>: humans, great apes, elephants, and whales\u2014all animals known for their complex social behaviors and apparent capacity for empathy. Spindle neurons are uniquely structured for rapid processing<\/a> of social and emotional information, allowing quick transmission of signals across different brain regions<\/a>.

Scientists have found that these neurons appear in brain areas responsible for social awareness, emotional processing, and what they call \u201csympathetic concern.\u201d These are precisely the neural foundations needed for the sophisticated relationship dance Robbins describes: noticing someone\u2019s negative behavior, choosing not to take it personally, and then deciding how to respond constructively.

The presence of these neurons in whales\u2014who may have had them for 30 million years<\/a>, twice as long as humans\u2014suggests that the ability to maintain social bonds through empathetic responses might be a specialized evolutionary adaptation. While most animals react defensively or withdraw when faced with hostility, species with spindle neurons can override this instinct, potentially allowing them to consider: \u201cHow might I respond in a way that strengthens rather than damages this relationship?\u201d

When Robbins suggests responding to your colleague\u2019s rudeness with empathy rather than defensiveness, she\u2019s inviting you to engage these advanced neural pathways\u2014a capacity that appears to be rare in the animal kingdom but which defines some of Earth\u2019s most socially sophisticated species.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The same principle applies to friendships, too: Robbins explains you have to create the community you desire by adapting to the evolution of your friendships over time.<\/strong> When friends move away, prioritize new connections, or have less time for you, you need to say \u201cLet Them\u201d instead of clinging tightly or feeling hurt. At the same time, use \u201cLet Me\u201d to consider what matters most in adult friendships: proximity, timing, and energy. Proximity<\/em> refers to physical closeness, which creates opportunities for interaction. Timing<\/em> involves being at similar life stages<\/a>. Energy<\/em> is the effort you put in nurturing the friendship. If these are lacking, you can take action to realign yourself with a friend who seems distant\u2014or make new connections.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Robbins\u2019s emphasis on proximity, timing, and energy as key to staying connected as friendships evolve is backed by neuroscience. When we spend time in physical proximity to friends, our brains release oxytocin<\/a>, which activates reward circuits and strengthens our bond. Timing is important, too: When friends experience similar challenges, their brain activity actually synchronizes<\/a>\u2014so we\u2019re literally \u201con the same wavelength<\/a>\u201d with friends in compatible life stages. Finally, the energy we invest in friendships creates a safety net. When facing stressful situations, people with strong social connections show reduced activity in brain regions associated with threat processing<\/a>\u2014so challenges seem less threatening with support.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Robbins notes that you can take the same approach to romantic relationships as well. When you\u2019re dating someone, you have to \u201cLet Them\u201d show you who they really are<\/strong>, what they want in life, and whether you\u2019re a priority to them. If they\u2019re not the kind of person you want to be with, then you can let the relationship go to make space for someone else who can offer the love, commitment, and compatibility you deserve. No relationship is perfect, and every relationship hits rough patches. But if you agree on your values and support each other\u2019s dreams, are willing to put in the effort to make the relationship work, and can accept each other as you are, then you can love them for who they are rather than for who you wish they could be.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Robbins\u2019s advice to let other people show you who they are echoes writer and poet Maya Angelou\u2019s wisdom: \u201cWhen someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time<\/a>.\u201d People reveal their authentic selves through consistent patterns of action, but we resist seeing them as they are because we\u2019re invested in seeing the \u201cpotential\u201d in romantic partners. This tendency to ignore what people are clearly showing us often stems from what psychologists call optimism bias<\/a>, our tendency to overestimate the likelihood of positive outcomes despite evidence to the contrary. It\u2019s why we overlook red flags, excuse behavior that conflicts with our values, and convince ourselves people will make an exception to established patterns.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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