{"id":144026,"date":"2025-05-21T09:22:55","date_gmt":"2025-05-21T13:22:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=144026"},"modified":"2025-05-22T11:14:47","modified_gmt":"2025-05-22T15:14:47","slug":"what-is-the-let-them-theory","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-is-the-let-them-theory\/","title":{"rendered":"What Is the Let Them Theory? The Secret to Letting Go"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Do you often feel like you&#8217;re wasting energy on things? What is the Let Them Theory?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mel Robbins\u2019s Let Them Theory teaches us to detach from situations and behaviors that are outside our sphere of influence. It involves <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-shift-your-mindset\/\">shifting your mindset<\/a> to take control of what you do and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-do-you-spend-your-time\/\">how you spend your time<\/a> and energy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to put your energy in the right place, read more about Robbins&#8217;s theory below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-the-let-them-theory\"><strong>What Is the Let Them Theory?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>What is the Let Them Theory? Robbins&#8217;s framework helps you determine what you can and can&#8217;t control so you can spend your energy wisely. She explains that we have a natural need to feel like we\u2019re in control because we fear that things will go wrong if we aren\u2019t in control\u2014and we think that if we can just influence those around us, we\u2019ll find a way to make our lives better and avert potential problems. But we can\u2019t control other people\u2019s actions or opinions, and trying to do so just makes us more stressed, anxious, miserable, and drained. It saps our energy, robs us of our peace of mind, and distracts us from creating the lives we want.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>How We\u2019re Wired to Seek Control<\/strong><br><br>Neuroscience research suggests our desire for control is <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC2944661\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">biologically hardwired<\/a>, not just culturally learned. Researchers have found that believing we can control our environment (and attempting to) is not merely preferable: It\u2019s a psychological and biological imperative for survival. Our brain&#8217;s reward system reinforces this drive for control. When we make choices, even inconsequential ones, we activate a network of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-are-the-regions-of-the-brain\/\">brain regions<\/a> that produces rewarding feelings.&nbsp;<br><br>The biological need for control explains why people prefer situations offering choice over non-choice ones, even when the outcomes are identical. The removal of control, meanwhile, triggers significant stress responses. This suggests that when we <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/trying-to-control-others\/\">try to control others<\/a>, we\u2019re attempting to satisfy a fundamental biological drive. The anxiety we feel when we can\u2019t control others isn\u2019t just psychological discomfort\u2014it\u2019s our brain\u2019s ancient warning system telling us our survival might be threatened.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>To escape the trap of trying to control what other people do and say, Robbins contends <strong>you have to acknowledge that you can\u2019t manage everyone else\u2019s opinions, judgments, and feelings<\/strong> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-redirect-your-energy\/\">redirect your energy<\/a> and focus to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/control-what-you-can-control\/\">what you can control<\/a>. She explains that to do that, you can use two simple phrases: \u201cLet Them\u201d and \u201cLet Me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-let-them-and-let-me\"><strong>\u201cLet Them\u201d and \u201cLet Me\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>When you say \u201cLet Them,\u201d you consciously detach from other people\u2019s behaviors, opinions, and emotional reactions<\/strong>. This frees you from wasting time and energy on things you can\u2019t control or wishing you could change the people around you\u2014people who might not actually want to change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Robbins says that saying \u201cLet Them\u201d saves you time and energy and might make you feel relieved, but she cautions that it might also make you feel superior because you can blame the other person for their \u201cbad\u201d behavior or \u201cwrong\u201d opinions and move on. It can also lead you to withdraw from the situation and from your connection with others. This is where \u201cLet Me\u201d comes in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201cLet Me\u201d means you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/accepting-responsibility\/\">take responsibility<\/a> for your own actions, thoughts, and feelings in response to the situation<\/strong>. Robbins explains that when you say \u201cLet Me,\u201d you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-empower-yourself\/\">empower yourself<\/a> to focus on your values, your attitude, and your actions as you move forward. By combining \u201cLet Them\u201d with \u201cLet Me,\u201d you regain control of the situation\u2014and give grace to others.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, when a family member offers unsolicited advice about your life choices, you can \u201cLet Them\u201d have their opinion without internalizing it. After all, their perspective isn\u2019t a reflection of your values or the validity of your decisions. 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Situations that once made you feel frustrated or anxious will become opportunities to exercise your newfound ability to let go of what you can\u2019t control and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-direct-your-energy\/\">direct your energy<\/a> toward more constructive pursuits. <strong>While \u201cLet Them\u201d involves accepting others for who they are, \u201cLet Me\u201d requires taking full responsibility for your own life<\/strong>. It\u2019s about recognizing that you are the only one who can create the changes you want.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you often feel like you&#8217;re wasting energy on things? What is the Let Them Theory? Mel Robbins\u2019s Let Them Theory teaches us to detach from situations and behaviors that are outside our sphere of influence. It involves shifting your mindset to take control of what you do and how you spend your time and energy. 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