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How impactful is culture on people’s lives? How can you address someone’s cultural history in an engaging conversation<\/a>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One way to engage more deeply with people\u2019s stories is to look for the influence of their culture on the events they\u2019re telling you about. Oftentimes, the way someone was raised determines the choices they make and how they perceive the world<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here’s why you should keep the impact of culture in the back of your head when listening to someone’s story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Recognize the Influence of a Person\u2019s Culture and History<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Brooks says some of the key events in a person\u2019s story began long before they were born: in the history of the place they grew up or in the backstory of the people they\u2019re descended from. He believes our ancestors\u2019 history lives on in all of us. So, to really know a person, it helps to learn where they came from and the impact of culture on their view of the world and their place in it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: A classic example of our culture and history\u2019s influence on our behavior and self-perception<\/a> is the comparison of individualist and collectivist cultures<\/a>. Social psychologists explain that in individualist cultures, common in North America and Western Europe, people tend to prioritize independence<\/a> and define themselves by individual traits. Conversely, collectivist<\/a> cultures, prevalent in many Asian and South American countries, emphasize group harmony and social roles<\/a>, and people often define themselves in relation to their community. These differences affect everything from a person\u2019s career choices to their communication style\u2014and understanding them can help you see where someone is coming from, too.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Brooks explains that you can simply ask a person how their life has been shaped by their ancestors or by the culture of the place where they grew up<\/strong>. Often, people have ideas about how these influences have shaped their life, their character, and the way they relate to others. But as we discussed earlier in the guide, relying on stereotypes is counterproductive. (That\u2019s why it\u2019s crucial to learn about how a person\u2019s background has impacted them by simply asking them.) Brooks also notes that it\u2019s often wise to get an idea of how closely they identify with or separate themselves from their culture. Not everybody has the same relationship with the people and places they come from, and while the social groups we\u2019re part of provide important context, we can\u2019t be reduced to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: While Brooks suggests asking about a person’s background, some people caution against this approach. These questions, even when asked out of genuine curiosity, can inadvertently reinforce feelings of otherness and be perceived as microaggressions<\/a>. This effect can be particularly significant<\/a> for those who already feel different in a given environment, as these questions can carry assumptions about race or ethnicity and suggest they don’t belong. Instead of asking about someone’s background, some experts say it can be more effective to listen as people naturally share details about themselves in conversation. That way, you can focus on getting to know the individual rather than categorizing them based on their origins.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

How impactful is culture on people’s lives? How can you address someone’s cultural history in an engaging conversation? One way to engage more deeply with people\u2019s stories is to look for the influence of their culture on the events they\u2019re telling you about. Oftentimes, the way someone was raised determines the choices they make and how they perceive the world. Here’s why you should keep the impact of culture in the back of your head when listening to someone’s story.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":135586,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,24],"tags":[1662],"class_list":["post-135444","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle","category-society","tag-how-to-know-a-person","","tg-column-two"],"yoast_head":"\nHow to Respect the Impact of Culture on Someone's Life - Shortform Books<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"When you're listening to someone, you may recognize the impact of culture on their life. 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