{"id":133415,"date":"2024-10-12T21:12:57","date_gmt":"2024-10-13T01:12:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=133415"},"modified":"2024-10-18T13:57:37","modified_gmt":"2024-10-18T17:57:37","slug":"anti-charisma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/anti-charisma\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Anti-Charisma Cues to Avoid (Vanessa Van Edwards)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Do you have charisma\u2014or anti-charisma? What subtle cues might be sabotaging your charm without you even realizing it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/cues-book\/\">Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication<\/a><\/em>, Vanessa Van Edwards lays out the concept of anti-charisma. She identifies several verbal and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/nonverbal-cues\/\">nonverbal signals<\/a> that can undermine your charm and offers practical alternatives to enhance your presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading to explore the world of anti-charisma and discover how to become a more magnetic communicator.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-anti-charisma-cues\">Anti-Charisma Cues<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In her book, Van Edwards discusses cues you should use to cultivate charisma. Then she turns to several anti-charisma cues you should mitigate or avoid. We\u2019ll describe the cues that signal <em>contemptibility<\/em>\u2014the absence of warmth and competence\u2014and provide alternatives you can use to minimize contemptibility. Finally, we\u2019ll discuss how to counter others\u2019 biases, which could lead them to unfairly perceive you as uncharismatic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Contemptible <\/em>cues counteract charisma by decreasing your perceived warmth, competence, or both, leading others to dismiss you. Just like charismatic cues, these anti-charisma cues fall into two categories: verbal and nonverbal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-verbal-cues\">Verbal Cues<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#1: Asking questions when you mean to make a statement. <\/strong>Van Edwards says that many people raise their pitch at the end of a sentence\u2014this variation in pitch is known as <em>question inflection, <\/em>and it signals that you\u2019re unsure of what you\u2019re saying. To <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-show-competence\/\">project competence<\/a> instead, maintain a steady pitch throughout your sentence. (Shortform note: You can use the inverse of this rule when it\u2019s important to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-show-warmth\/\">project warmth<\/a>: For example, question inflection (also known as \u201cupspeak\u201d or \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.inhersight.com\/blog\/culture-and-professionalism\/uptalk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">uptalk<\/a>\u201d) can help soften criticism or make an instruction seem like a suggestion. This can be helpful when you want to signal that you\u2019re not trying to overpower someone, like when you disagree with your boss or a friend.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#2: Uninteresting and pessimistic language. <\/strong>Van Edwards says when your words have uninteresting or pessimistic connotations, your audience <em>feels <\/em>uninterested and pessimistic. Because people avoid others who make them feel negative emotions, your audience will avoid interacting with you when you use such language. So opt for more interesting alternatives to banal language, and replace negatives with positives whenever possible. For example, instead of saying, \u201cI hope our trip isn\u2019t boring,\u201d use the positive inverse of the same statement: \u201cI hope our trip is <em>exciting<\/em>!\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Although Van Edwards is primarily concerned with the way you talk to others, you may also be able to enhance your charisma by choosing positive and engaging language in your self-talk. Many people use harsher or more apathetic language with themselves than they\u2019d use with others, and over time, this can make you feel more stressed, less confident, and even depressed. Outwardly, this might make you seem like a negative person, which Van Edwards notes can drive others away. To <a href=\"https:\/\/newsnetwork.mayoclinic.org\/discussion\/mayo-mindfulness-overcoming-negative-self-talk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">correct negative self-talk<\/a>, experts suggest that you lean into humor, gratitude, and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/compassion-for-yourself\/\">self-compassion<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-nonverbal-cues\">Nonverbal Cues<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#1: Defensive <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/body-language-crucial-conversations\/\">body language<\/a>. <\/strong>Defensive body language includes protective poses such as crossing your arms as well as two other behaviors: covering your mouth and blocking your vision. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/wordplay\/facepalm-words-were-watching\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">facepalm<\/a> is one notable example of defensive body language\u2014it suggests that you\u2019re feeling embarrassment (or secondhand embarrassment) and need to take a moment to recover. Defensive body language signals discomfort, shock, shame, or fear, so using it makes others feel anxious. (Shortform note: Other forms of <a href=\"https:\/\/changingminds.org\/techniques\/body\/defensive_body.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">defensive body language<\/a> to avoid include covering vulnerable body parts like your throat, tensing your muscles, and curling up or shrinking to make yourself smaller.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#2: Negative facial expressions.<\/strong> Many people unknowingly show facial expressions that signal sadness, irritation, and contempt\u2014like knitted eyebrows, pursed lips, smirks, and frowns\u2014even when they don\u2019t actually <em>feel <\/em>those emotions. To avoid having others misinterpret your emotions, Van Edwards encourages you to be mindful of your facial expressions at all times. (Shortform note: If you\u2019re prone to showing negative facial expressions, you might have what some experts refer to as \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2016\/02\/03\/health\/resting-bitch-face-research-irpt\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">resting bitch face<\/a>\u201d or RBF. Some people with RBF reportedly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/2019\/09\/please-dont-get-surgery-to-change-your-rbf.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">seek plastic surgery<\/a> to counteract it; according to Van Edwards\u2019s website, some <a href=\"https:\/\/www.scienceofpeople.com\/resting-bitch-face\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">less dire solutions<\/a> include smiling more and using makeup and accessories to appear more cheerful.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>#3: Self-soothing gestures.<\/strong> These are small, compulsive, self-focused gestures like fidgeting with your keys, bouncing your leg, or peeling off your nail polish. You may only exhibit these behaviors out of habit, but they\u2019re off-putting because they make you seem stressed and lacking in self-control. To prevent self-soothing, Van Edwards suggests preoccupying yourself by giving your hands or legs and feet something more natural and purposeful to do. For example, if you want to stop fidgeting with your keys in class, you could take notes or even doodle instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Although Van Edwards warns against self-soothing behaviors, other experts say that they can have benefits. For example, some studies suggest that some self-soothing behaviors, like pacing and doodling, can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/future\/article\/20230814-why-fidgeting-is-good-for-you\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">improve focus and help guard against the risks<\/a> associated with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-avoid-sedentary-lifestyle\/\">sedentary lifestyle<\/a>. Additionally, some children (and adults) find that self-soothing with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/health\/mind\/fidget-toys-for-anxiety\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">fidget toys<\/a> helps them overcome symptoms of anxiety, ADHD, and <a href=\"https:\/\/autismlittlelearners.com\/self-regulation-emotions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">autism<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-confirming-unconscious-biases\">Confirming Unconscious Biases<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Van Edwards points out that others may have <em>unconscious biases <\/em>against you because they unconsciously subscribe to certain stereotypes. For example, if you\u2019re a Black woman, you may encounter the <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/24188294\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u201cangry Black woman\u201d stereotype<\/a>, which makes others perceive you as overly hostile or aggressive regardless of your actual demeanor and behavior. Van Edwards says that, even though it\u2019s unfair for the responsibility of counteracting these stereotypes to fall on you, it may benefit you to purposefully counteract them anyway. If you\u2019re concerned about how being perceived as an angry Black woman could harm your career, for example, you could employ extra warmth cues during workplace disagreements to protect your professional image.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Social scientists refer to the pressure to avoid confirming others\u2019 unconscious biases as <a href=\"https:\/\/serc.carleton.edu\/sage2yc\/stereotype\/stereotype.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>stereotype threat<\/em><\/a><em>. <\/em>Stereotype threats often induce anxiety and distract you from the task at hand, since you become concerned with both performing in the moment <em>and <\/em>counteracting the stereotype in question. Because of this, stereotype threats can cause you to perform worse than you would if you weren\u2019t thinking about the stereotype in question. If you\u2019re facing a stereotype threat, one strategy that could help you overcome it is <a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/record\/2006-02027-010\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>self-affirmation<\/em><\/a><em>. <\/em>Studies suggest that when you bring to mind things you like about yourself or your inherent value as a person, you reduce the power a stereotype threat holds over you in the moment.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-exercise\">Exercise<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Are there any anti-charisma cues that you need to mitigate or avoid in your personal life? For example, maybe you naturally cross your arms a lot and need to be vigilant about signaling openness on your first date.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Are there any anti-charisma cues that you need to mitigate or avoid in your professional life? For example, maybe you tend to use self-soothing gestures like nail-biting when you\u2019re nervous, and you want to avoid those gestures so you appear more confident during your performance review.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you have charisma\u2014or anti-charisma? What subtle cues might be sabotaging your charm without you even realizing it? In Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication, Vanessa Van Edwards lays out the concept of anti-charisma. She identifies several verbal and nonverbal signals that can undermine your charm and offers practical alternatives to enhance your presence. 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