Is it possible to learn how to be lucky? What can you do to turn around bad luck?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
According to psychologist Richard Wiseman, it’s possible to manipulate luck in your favor. He shares that if you brighten your outlook, broaden your horizons, and learn to turn your luck around then better luck is more likely to find you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here are Wiseman’s tips on how to become lucky, from his book The Luck Factor.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n Want to know how to be lucky? Wiseman says they can if you incorporate strategies to improve your luck into your daily attitudes and routines.<\/strong> Throughout his recommendations, Wiseman emphasizes the power of your expectations to shape your reality<\/a>. He says to experiment with different techniques, since different methods may work better for different people. The overall goal is to cultivate a more positive and expectant outlook on life, which\u2014fingers crossed\u2014might bring you good luck. <\/p>\n\n\n\n To get the ball rolling on developing a positive attitude<\/a> toward the future, Wiseman says to set realistic but ambitious goals<\/a> for the short, medium, and long term.<\/strong> Achieving short-term goals will give you a boost toward your next rung on the ladder, and if \u201cbad luck\u201d gets in the way, you can turn short-term misfortune into a way to practice perseverance. Wiseman suggests that when faced with a setback, you can engage in lucky-minded thinking by weighing the cost of trying again\u2014whether to double-down on your bet on yourself\u2014against the benefits of your eventual success. You\u2019ll often find that your short-term bad luck is tiny compared to the rewards of long-term persistence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n (Shortform note: Though Wiseman divides goals into three tiers, in When They Win, You Win<\/em><\/a>, Russ Laraway adds a fourth\u2014your ultimate aspiration<\/em>. This is your overall purpose in life\u2014a longer-than-long-term goal that might take decades to achieve, if ever\u2014such as making the world a better place<\/a> for your children. Though at any given moment, you\u2019re probably working toward one of the short-term goals on your list, Laraway explains how the goals in <\/a>e<\/a>ach tier support the ones above it<\/a>, with everything moving the needle on your aspirational goal in some way. When bad luck jams the gears on your short-term goals\u2019 progress, your highest aspiration might be more motivating than even the long-term goals on your list.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n In addition to cultivating the belief that luck will eventually turn your way, Wiseman writes that you should adopt practices to boost your intuition.<\/strong> Since Wiseman\u2019s research shows that lucky people often do so by engaging in meditation<\/a>, finding quiet places, or taking breaks from problems to clear their minds, he suggests trying whichever of these methods appeal to you the most and observe the effects. Keep in mind these activities don\u2019t produce immediate results\u2014they require patience and become more effective with regular practice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n (Shortform note: Wiseman discusses meditation as a singular practice, but there are actually many different techniques you can engage in. The Master Guides: Choosing a Meditation Practice<\/em><\/a> provides an overview of the most widely used approaches, from those associated with Buddhism, Hinduism, and Christianity, to more secular-oriented Western meditation<\/a> practices. Regardless of which meditation style you select, you should start small with short meditation sessions<\/a>, perhaps in conjunction with a class or support network, and\u2014if quiet meditation is hard\u2014try combining your practice with a low-intensity physical activity such as walking.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n In addition to suggesting you adopt a forward-thinking perspective, Wiseman recommends taking concrete steps to increase your chances of lucky moments<\/a> and encounters. The first is to build a larger personal network<\/a>,<\/strong> like those of the lucky people in his study. One way is to deliberately initiate conversations<\/a> with several strangers each week, whether in line at the grocery store, at meetings for work, or during social gatherings. You can also reconnect with people with whom you\u2019ve fallen out of touch, if only to have a brief catch-up conversation. Most interactions won\u2019t turn into strong connections, but, the more you interact with other people, the more likely you are to luckily stumble into a valuable new contact or future lifelong friend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n (Shortform note: At the time of Wiseman\u2019s writing, social media was in its infancy, though today it\u2019s become the tool of choice for expanding your network in the digital age. In Never Eat Alone<\/em><\/a>, Keith Ferrazzi explains how to leverage social media effectively<\/a>. First, use direct messaging to make your connections more personal. Second, inspire social media users to approach you <\/em>by creating content that piques people\u2019s interest. No matter what type of content you create, make sure it reflects your authentic personality, not a fake social media version of yourself. That way, when you need your online network as a pool of potential lucky connections, people will connect with the real you and not your phony digital persona.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Wiseman says that along with enlarging your social network, you should emulate lucky people by increasing your range of experiences.<\/strong> Every new interest, hobby, and aspect of life you explore increases your chances of lucky encounters that might benefit your career, your personal life, or open a window to opportunities you\u2019d never considered. If you\u2019re not sure where to start, Wiseman suggests that you literally roll the dice: Write a list of six things you\u2019ve never tried and randomly roll for which one you\u2019ll pursue. Make expanding your life into a game, and approach it with a child-like perspective, free from expectations. That openness, Wiseman insists, is vital to spotting lucky moments when they happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n (Shortform note: Several years after The Luck Factor<\/em>\u2019s publication, the term \u201cbucket list<\/a>\u201d entered public awareness as a list of daring things you\u2019d like to try before you die. Creating a bucket list encourages people to broaden their experiences by considering their mortality. One way to design one is to begin by daydreaming about what you\u2019d like to do<\/a> without any time or money constraints, writing down all your ideas. Divide them into long and short-term goals, identify any items that you can also do with others, pick your top three favorites from the list, and start the planning process to achieve them. It may be less random than Wiseman\u2019s dice game, but the dreams involved on a bucket list are often too big to accomplish on the spur of the moment.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n The last and most difficult new skill to learn is to not think of \u201cbad luck\u201d as bad luck at all.<\/strong> When things are going bad, \u201clook on the bright side\u201d might be the last thing you want to hear, but Wiseman insists that\u2019s what lucky people do. To more easily adopt a positive perspective, he suggests you take time to picture different ways your supposed bad luck might have saved you from something worse. For instance, you might imagine that your last flat tire saved you from being in a traffic accident a few minutes later due to a drunk driver. You should also imagine how bad luck in the past may have led to a positive chain of events. For example, bad luck during one job interview might open the door to a different, better position later.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Likewise, Wiseman agrees that you shouldn\u2019t dwell on your prior bad fortune.<\/strong> Instead, if you find yourself ruminating on the past, distract yourself with activities like exercise, watching funny movies, listening to music, and spending time with friends. If you can\u2019t avoid thinking about the past, you should reminisce about positive <\/em>events, reminding yourself of the good luck you\u2019ve had to counter any recent bad luck you may be feeling. These activities shift your focus away from negative experiences, painting a more balanced portrait of your life\u2014one in which your so-called \u201cbad luck\u201d doesn\u2019t loom as large as it may at first seem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n While Wiseman shows that belief in good luck is overwhelmingly positive, belief in bad luck is destructive because it makes you feel helpless<\/a> to control your circumstances. Therefore, his final recommendation is to take charge of your life<\/a> when bad luck strikes.<\/strong> Whatever misfortunes arise because of \u201cluck,\u201d you should immediately brainstorm solutions, decide on a course of action to take, and implement your solution right away. Instead of blaming external factors, focus on what you can learn and do differently whenever bad luck swings your way. If you can change and grow in some way as part of dealing with your misfortune, then perhaps your luck wasn\u2019t as bad as you believed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Is it possible to learn how to be lucky? What can you do to turn around bad luck? According to psychologist Richard Wiseman, it’s possible to manipulate luck in your favor. He shares that if you brighten your outlook, broaden your horizons, and learn to turn your luck around then better luck is more likely to find you. Here are Wiseman’s tips on how to become lucky, from his book The Luck Factor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":133119,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29,7,9],"tags":[1627],"class_list":["post-133078","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-career","category-lifestyle","category-psychology","tag-the-luck-factor","","tg-column-two"],"yoast_head":"\nHow to Be Lucky<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. Brighten Your Outlook<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
2. Broaden Your Horizon<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
3. Turn Your Luck Around<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Rule Your Luck\u2014Don\u2019t Let It Rule You<\/h4>\n\n\n\n