{"id":131101,"date":"2024-09-28T11:35:42","date_gmt":"2024-09-28T15:35:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=131101"},"modified":"2026-01-20T17:17:53","modified_gmt":"2026-01-20T21:17:53","slug":"confidence-gremlins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/confidence-gremlins\/","title":{"rendered":"Kicking Confidence Gremlins to the Curb (The Squiggly Career)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Are you struggling with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/overcoming-self-doubt\/\">self-doubt<\/a> in your career? Do you want to boost your confidence and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/steps-to-achieve-your-goals\/\">achieve your goals<\/a>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em>The Squiggly Career, <\/em>Helen Tupper and Sarah Ellis share advice on overcoming &#8220;confidence gremlins&#8221; in the context of nonlinear careers. They offer practical methods to overcome limiting beliefs, acknowledge your successes, and build a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/relentless-support\/\">strong support system<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read on to learn three ways to build self-confidence as you chase your career dreams.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-overcoming-confidence-gremlins\">Overcoming Confidence Gremlins<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tupper and Ellis write that confidence gremlins can hold you back when you&#8217;re pursuing a nonlinear career. They highlight the importance of believing in your capacity to achieve your goals, acknowledging your success, and being resilient in the face of challenges. Self-confidence is crucial in non-linear careers for three reasons.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>First, self-confidence inspires you to take <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-take-action-on-your-goals\/\">action toward your goals<\/a> with less deliberation, helping you forge <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/choose-your-own-path\/\">your own path<\/a> and achieve goals faster. Second, self-confidence helps you persevere when you encounter setbacks and challenges. Third, being confident in yourself inspires others to be confident in you as well, making you a valuable asset to teams and organizations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-six-pillars-of-self-esteem\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem<\/em><\/a>, Branden argues that to achieve true success in life, you need to have more than just self-confidence\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-six-pillars-of-self-esteem\/part-1-introduction-chapter-4#what-is-self-esteem\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">you need to have <em>self-esteem<\/em><\/a>. His concept of self-esteem includes Tupper and Ellis\u2019s definition of self-confidence and also encompasses the belief that you\u2019re an inherently good and valuable person who deserves happiness. Having <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-is-self-esteem-and-why-is-it-important\/\">self-esteem is<\/a> beneficial because, in addition to the results of self-confidence listed by the authors, <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-six-pillars-of-self-esteem\/part-1-introduction-chapter-4#the-benefits-of-high-self-esteem\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">self-esteem increases independence, creativity and intuition, and rationality<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tupper and Ellis offer three main methods you can use to build your confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-1-overcome-limiting-beliefs\">Method 1: Overcome Limiting Beliefs<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tupper and Ellis\u2019s first method for building your confidence is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/hub\/personal-life\/self\/overcoming-limiting-beliefs\/\">overcoming your limiting beliefs<\/a><\/strong>\u2014thoughts that diminish your self-worth and hold you back from reaching your goals. For example, believing you can\u2019t learn a hard skill or that others will always be better than you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The first step in overcoming your limiting beliefs is identifying them<\/strong>. To do so, consider what you\u2019re afraid of, what you want to do but don\u2019t, and what negative thoughts you have about yourself. Then, ask yourself why you believe these things\u2014for example, you don\u2019t like talking to new people because you\u2019re afraid they\u2019ll reject you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/awaken-the-giant-within\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Awaken the Giant Within<\/em><\/a><em>, <\/em>Robbins provides additional <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/awaken-the-giant-within\/chapter-4#apply-it-change-your-beliefs\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">recommendations for releasing limiting beliefs<\/a>. He says that once you\u2019ve identified them, consider not only why you believe these things, but why they might be ridiculous, who you learned each belief from and whether they\u2019re a good influence, the costs and benefits of holding onto the beliefs, and the costs and benefits of letting them go. This will help you better direct your efforts to overcoming the belief, for example, by giving you confidence to face your fears and detach from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/negative-influences\/\">negative influences<\/a> in your life.)&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Next, Tupper and Ellis say you must face your fears and challenge your limiting beliefs to disprove them.<\/strong> For example, face your fear of talking to new people by finding someone new to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-initiate-a-conversation\/\">start a conversation<\/a> with. Most of the time, you\u2019ll realize that your fear doesn\u2019t manifest or that it\u2019s actually not as bad as you thought. This will help you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/build-confidence-and-destroy-fear\/\">build confidence<\/a> in yourself and overcome the things <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/whats-holding-you-back\/\">holding you back<\/a>. Regularly challenge yourself to continue making progress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-comfort-crisis\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>The Comfort Crisis<\/em><\/a><em>, <\/em>Michael Easter explains that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-face-your-fears\/\">facing your fears<\/a> is difficult for most people because we dread the anxiety that comes from leaving our comfort zone. However, there are small things you can do regularly to strengthen your ability to break out of your comfort zone. For example, <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-comfort-crisis#comfort-remedy-get-out-in-nature\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">going into nature on a regular basis better equips you to face your fears<\/a> by reducing anxiety, depression, and anger. In particular, Easter recommends spending 20 minutes in nature (even if it\u2019s a city park) at least three times a week, at least five hours in a rural area (outside the city) every month, and at least one three-day trip to the wilderness (outside of civilization) every year.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-2-acknowledge-your-success\">Method 2: Acknowledge Your Success<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>The authors\u2019 second method to build self-confidence is to acknowledge your successes.<\/strong> Many people struggle with self-confidence because we have the tendency to remember our failures more than our successes, therefore building a false negative track record for ourselves in our minds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: We tend to remember our failures more than our success due to the <a href=\"https:\/\/thedecisionlab.com\/biases\/negativity-bias\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">negativity bias<\/a>\u2014a natural <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/cognitive-bias-definition\/\">cognitive bias<\/a> that causes negative events to more significantly impact us than positive events. Experts theorize that this bias developed as an evolutionary adaptation\u2014we\u2019re more focused on negativity so we can avoid what can harm us and keep ourselves safe.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To counter this, the authors say you should <strong>start recording all your successes of the day\u2014how you helped yourself, and others, in different contexts<\/strong>. Further, remember that success is subjective\u2014rather than <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/self-comparison\/\">comparing yourself to others<\/a> or an objective <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-measure-success\/\">idea of success<\/a>, consider what <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-does-success-mean-for-you\/\">success means to you<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/steal-like-an-artist\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Steal Like an Artist<\/em><\/a><em>, <\/em>Austin Kleon also recommends overcoming our tendency toward negativity by <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/steal-like-an-artist\/1-page-summary#use-the-internet-to-share-and-connect\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">keeping track of positive experiences in a \u201cpraise file\u201d<\/a>\u2014this way, all your positive reminders are in one, easily accessible digital file. He specifically recommends keeping track of positive comments you receive from others; however, you can use it to record any success or positive experience.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-method-3-build-a-support-system\">Method 3: Build a Support System<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Finally, Tupper and Ellis argue that it\u2019s crucial to have a solid system of supporters in order to build self-confidence<\/strong>. You should ensure your support system includes at least one person who can offer unconditional love (like a parent), one who can empathize with your circumstances, one who can give situational advice, and one who can give honest feedback.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/bold\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Bold<\/em><\/a><em>, <\/em>Peter Diamandis and Steven Kotler also recommend <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/bold\/1-page-summary#how-to-create-a-closed-network\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">building a system of close supporters to help you succeed in your career<\/a>. However, they note that these people are useful for more than just building self-confidence\u2014they can also help you build your business or personal brand by offering critical feedback, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/personal-connections\/\">personal connections<\/a> to build your network (which is important for Ability 4), and resources you may need along your journey.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Further, say Tupper and Ellis, ensure there\u2019s balance in these relationships\u2014don\u2019t rely too frequently or heavily on someone. You also want to ensure that the relationship is somewhat mutual\u2014that you or the other person isn\u2019t expecting support without returning it. Failing to do these things can create dependent relationships that hinder autonomy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Even if you\u2019re in mutually <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/supportive-relationships\/\">supportive relationships<\/a>, you can still end up overly dependent. For example, if you struggle to make decisions without others\u2019 input, struggle to start things on your own, feel the need for others\u2019 approval, or are unable to enforce personal boundaries, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/intl\/blog\/hope-relationships\/201601\/9-things-dependent-people-do\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">you may have a dependency problem<\/a>.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you struggling with self-doubt in your career? Do you want to boost your confidence and achieve your goals? In The Squiggly Career, Helen Tupper and Sarah Ellis share advice on overcoming &#8220;confidence gremlins&#8221; in the context of nonlinear careers. They offer practical methods to overcome limiting beliefs, acknowledge your successes, and build a strong support system. 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