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Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you just can’t see eye to eye with someone? How do you maintain a positive relationship when faced with an unresolvable conflict?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In her book Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People<\/em>, Ren\u00e9e Evenson offers practical advice for handling disagreements that seem impossible to resolve. She provides strategies for affirming relationships, accepting situations, and explaining decisions when conflicts arise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Read on to discover how to navigate unresolvable conflicts while preserving important relationships<\/a> in both personal and professional settings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Unresolvable Conflict<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Evenson notes that, in situations where the two of you are unable to communicate effectively or find a mutually acceptable agreement, you may have to give up on achieving a win-win<\/a> outcome. Sometimes you’re just stuck with an unresolvable conflict. In this case, it’s important to still affirm the relationship. <\/strong>This helps you maintain a collaborative relationship even if you can’t see eye to eye on this particular issue. Say something like, “It’s too bad we couldn’t settle this disagreement, but I’m sure we’ll still be able to do great work together.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: It might be hard to genuinely affirm your relationship with someone if you deeply dislike them. To encourage yourself to like them more, try to intentionally counteract your mental bias of confirming what you already think about them<\/a>. When you frequently think about someone\u2019s annoying habits and unlikable qualities, you\u2019ll naturally notice those traits more often, leading you to dislike that person more. Instead, focus on their skills and qualities you can appreciate\u2014everybody has some.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t have the authority to resolve the issue without the other person\u2019s help, you may need to simply accept things as they are<\/a> and get used to it. Alternatively, in the workplace, you could present your case to someone in a position of authority and get them to intervene. Evenson asserts that this should be a last resort\u2014leaving the person you disagree with out of the conversation might damage your relationship with them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: If you decide to talk to your boss about your co-worker\u2019s behavior, make sure to use the same mature strategies that you would if you were discussing it with your co-worker: Explain what specific behavior you want to change, how it makes you feel, and the consequences it has on your work<\/a>\u2014all without accusing or blaming them. If your boss refuses to intervene, you may be able to make peace with the situation by trying to learn something from it<\/a>, so it doesn\u2019t feel like a total loss.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On the other hand, it\u2019s possible that you have the authority to resolve the issue in a way you believe is best, but that the other person doesn\u2019t like. In this case, Evenson recommends respectfully explaining the reasoning behind your final decision to the other person.<\/strong> This way, even if they disagree, they\u2019ll have more respect for your decision-making<\/a> process. This will leave them more likely to make peace with your decision and maintain a strong relationship<\/a> with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, imagine you\u2019re the founder of a startup. After a deep discussion, you decide to move forward with a certain marketing strategy, even though your COO believes it\u2019s suboptimal. You explain that although they raise valid concerns, preliminary research shows that the marketing strategy would be successful, so you\u2019re going to try it out for a couple of months. This reasoned explanation motivates the COO to respect your leadership and continue doing their best work for the company, even if they still think your marketing strategy is a mistake.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: In Trillion Dollar Coach<\/em><\/a>, Eric Schmidt, Jonathan Rosenberg, and Alan Eagle contend that the most convincing way to justify your decision is to connect it to your organization\u2019s core guiding principles<\/a>. If you can explain how your decision furthers the organization\u2019s reason for existing, the other person will hopefully understand why you feel you have to disagree with them.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you just can’t see eye to eye with someone? How do you maintain a positive relationship when faced with an unresolvable conflict? In her book Powerful Phrases for Dealing with Difficult People, Ren\u00e9e Evenson offers practical advice for handling disagreements that seem impossible to resolve. She provides strategies for affirming relationships, accepting situations, and explaining decisions when conflicts arise. 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