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Do you know how to find what makes you happy? Are you looking for joy in all the wrong places?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What makes someone else happy might not work for you. In The How of Happiness<\/em>, Sonja Lyubomirsky discusses general strategies for finding joy in life, but she also emphasizes the importance of each person crafting a personal path.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Continue reading to get Lyubomirsky’s recommendations for personalizing your pursuit of happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

How to Find What Makes You Happy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

In her book, Lyubomirsky covers a variety of strategies for cultivating positive thoughts<\/a> and behaviors to enhance long-term happiness. While using these strategies might sound straightforward, Lyubomirsky highlights a common pitfall: Many people mistakenly believe that all positive thoughts and behaviors yield the same happy outcomes.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ll explain why personalizing<\/em> your positive thoughts and behaviors increases your chances of enhancing your long-term happiness. We\u2019ll also describe Lyubomirsky\u2019s advice for how to find what makes you<\/em> happy by personalizing her strategies. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Why Personalization Matters<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

According to Lyubomirsky, for positive thoughts and behaviors to impact happiness, they must resonate with you personally<\/strong>. She explains that happiness is subjective\u2014we all have unique values and temperaments that influence how we respond to experiences. In other words, a strategy that makes one person happy won\u2019t necessarily elicit the same response in another. Therefore, the more happiness-boosting strategies feel personal to you, the more likely they are to work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Knowing your temperament\u2014your inherent way of interacting with your environment<\/a>\u2014may help guide you toward the most resonant and effective happiness-boosting strategies. Scientists classify temperaments into four types: sanguine (sociable and creative), melancholic (detail-oriented and purpose-driven), choleric (goal-focused and ambitious), and phlegmatic (people-oriented and relaxed).)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Additionally, you\u2019re more likely to <\/strong>regularly <\/em><\/strong>practice strategies that resonate with you\u2014which Lyubomirsky says is key to enhancing long-term happiness.<\/strong> Think of happiness as a muscle: Just as sporadic exercise won’t significantly strengthen your muscles, occasional engagement in happiness-boosting activities won\u2019t impact your long-term happiness. On the other hand, much like regular workouts compound over time to increase strength and endurance, consistently practicing happiness-boosting strategies leads to upward spirals of happiness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: In Grit<\/em><\/a>, Angela Duckworth echoes this idea, arguing that consistent, deliberate<\/em> practice is the key to success<\/a> in any endeavor.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lyubomirsky’s research reinforces her argument that personalized strategies foster greater commitment and benefits. In one study, researchers assigned participants a random happiness activity<\/a> to pursue for two months. Participants who pursued activities that aligned with their preferences not only enjoyed the practice more but also continued it post-study and reaped greater happiness than those assigned mismatched activities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Studies on the effect of personalized health care strategies on patients support Lyubomirsky’s findings. Specifically, they reveal that customizing health care plans to fit individual preferences and lifestyles empowers patients to take control of their health<\/a>. This sense of empowerment enhances engagement and fosters long-term commitment to health regimens, thereby enhancing the effectiveness of treatment plans.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Personalize Your Happiness-Boosting Strategies<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Lyubomirsky suggests that you\u2019re more likely to commit to and benefit from happiness-boosting strategies if you personalize them in four ways:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1) Self-reflect:<\/strong>  Lyubomirsky recommends pondering moments that genuinely bring you happiness and using tools that help you understand your strengths and values, such as the Person-Activity Fit Diagnostic<\/a>. For example, if you find joy<\/a> in helping others and have free time, consider volunteering for a cause you care about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: The diagnostic tool recommended above requires you to try and reflect on the specific happiness-boosting strategies that Lyubomirsky suggests. If you want to identify types of activities that suit you before trying out the strategies, Bill Burnett and Dave Evans (Designing Your Life<\/em><\/a>) offer a complementary method: Track what activities make you feel joyful, engaged, and energized<\/a>. Then, zoom in on the details of each activity to identify what specifically made you happy. Pay attention to who you were with, what you were doing, where you were, and what you were interacting with (for example, people, objects, or a machine).)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2) Practice regularly:<\/strong> Lyubomirsky suggests considering times when you\u2019re most receptive to practicing happiness-boosting strategies and introducing them into your routine one at a time to avoid being overwhelmed. For example, if you\u2019re a morning person, begin practicing a single strategy after you wake up, or if you\u2019re a night person, try adding a strategy to your nighttime routine. Wait until you\u2019ve established it as a habit before adding another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Duckworth (Grit<\/em><\/a>) specifies that you\u2019ll establish habits easier if, in addition to identifying a time, you identify an environment<\/em> in which you\u2019re more receptive to practice (tracking your activities<\/a> as Burnett and Evans suggest will help you achieve this). For example, you might enjoy early morning meditation<\/a> in your living room before your kids wake up. Once you\u2019ve identified a time and place, commit to practicing in that environment every day at the same time<\/a>. Duckworth says that this will help you engage in your practice automatically, thereby freeing up the cognitive space required to introduce additional strategies into your routine.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3) Introduce variety:<\/strong> Lyubomirsky says you should make sure your practice doesn\u2019t become monotonous and feel like a chore by varying the activities or rotating between strategies. Additionally, if your circumstances change, make sure your strategies evolve in tandem. For example, if your workload increases leaving you with less free time, integrate shorter, more focused strategies into your day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Similarly, Arthur Brooks, host of the “How to Build a Happy Life\u201d podcast<\/a>, argues that the key to happiness is finding a balance between novelty and routine<\/a>. He explains that “neophilia”\u2014the tendency to seek out new experiences\u2014stimulates interest and curiosity, which promote overall well-being. However, neophilia can also lead to restless or impulsive behavior. To find a healthy balance, he suggests regularly challenging and experimenting with preferences, choosing curiosity over comfort, avoiding newness for its own sake, and making deliberate decisions rather than acting impulsively.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4) Monitor your progress:<\/strong> Lyubomirsky recommends using happiness self-evaluation tools like the Subjective Happiness Scale<\/a> or the Oxford Happiness Questionnaire<\/a> to measure the impact of different strategies and inform your practice. For example, if you notice improvement after starting a specific strategy, consider dedicating more time to it or exploring similar activities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: While Lyubomirsky’s advice to use self-evaluation tools may help monitor the effect of different strategies, some researchers warn that self-reported happiness can be unreliable. Studies show that people often report higher<\/em> levels of happiness on self-reported tests<\/a> than what external observations in a research setting\u2014such as interviews with participants about their happiness\u2014might identify. In other words, people often rate themselves as happier than others perceive them to be. Therefore, supplementing your self-evaluations with the opinions of those around you might provide a more thorough and reliable evaluation of the effectiveness of your happiness strategies.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exercise: Personalize Your Happiness-Boosting Strategies<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Lyubomirsky suggests that you\u2019re more likely to commit to and benefit from happiness-boosting strategies if you customize them to suit you. Let\u2019s explore how you might go about this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Reflect on what makes you happy. Which of Lyubomirsky\u2019s strategies might encourage you to devote more time to these activities? (For example, if you enjoy meeting up with friends, you might choose to regularly discuss what you\u2019re thankful for rather than keeping a gratitude journal.)<\/li>
  2. Think about times you\u2019re more receptive to feeling happy. When would be the best time to practice the strategies? Briefly explain why. (For example, you might benefit more from practicing them in the evening because you feel too pressured to get things done during the day.)<\/li>
  3. Pick one strategy that appeals to you and write three ways you could practice it to prevent monotony. (For example, you might practice kindness by focusing on loved ones one week, colleagues the next week, and strangers the week after that. Or you might switch between planning kind activities, waiting for inspiration to strike, or setting a daily kindness challenge.)<\/li>
  4. Consider how you might measure your happiness and how often you\u2019ll do it. Briefly describe how you intend to assess your progress. (For example, you might use one of Lyubomirsky\u2019s recommended measurement tools every week, or opt for a monthly check-in with loved ones to get feedback on their perception of your happiness.)<\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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