{"id":119577,"date":"2023-12-19T09:49:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-19T13:49:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=119577"},"modified":"2023-12-20T11:33:26","modified_gmt":"2023-12-20T15:33:26","slug":"how-to-understand-emotions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-understand-emotions\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Understand Emotions &#038; Relate to Them in a Healthy Way"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-are-emotions-why-do-we-have-emotions\/\">What are emotions<\/a>? When is it healthy to have challenging emotions? How aware of your own feelings are you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>According to Dr. Julie Smith, the most important thing to know about emotions is that they are a normal part of the human experience. That goes for the highs and the lows. What matters most is that they match the situation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read more to learn <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-understand-anything-deeply\/\">how to understand<\/a> emotions and work with them in a healthy way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-understand-emotions\">How to Understand Emotions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Smith explains that it\u2019s healthy to have a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/emotional-range\/\">range of emotions<\/a>, even if some of them are negative. Life isn\u2019t about being happy and content all the time\u2014it\u2019s about meeting challenges, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-adapt-to-change\/\">adapting to change<\/a>, and, ultimately, surviving to see another day. Emotions are a natural response to your physical and psychological states as you navigate these changes and challenges. She shares some of the science behind emotions, which can help you know how to understand emotions and ultimately accept them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-happiness-trap\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>The Happiness Trap<\/em><\/a>, Russ Harris explains that <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-happiness-trap\/part-1-1#myth-1-humans-are-naturally-happy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the idea that life is all about achieving happiness is a myth that causes us distress<\/a>. American society reinforces the belief that everyone can and should be happy. Images of happy people are used to sell us things and keep us engaged on social media. Happiness is even included in the U.S. Declaration of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/maturity-continuum-7-habits\/\">Independence<\/a> as a fundamental human right. However, Harris says human beings are not naturally or easily happy because our minds did not evolve for happiness\u2014they evolved for survival: spotting danger and staying safe, being a part of a group, and constantly searching for and collecting essential things like food and water.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Emotions are your brain\u2019s attempt to make sense of what\u2019s happening<\/strong>, both inside you and in the world around you. When you experience an event, your brain takes all the information it gathers from your senses, your body (your heart rate, blood pressure, breathing rate, hormones, and the like), and your memories of when you felt similarly in the past. It then makes an interpretation of all the data it has, which we often experience as emotions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Many psychology experts in the West agree that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/what-are-emotions-2795178\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">emotions are complex, natural, healthy, and adaptive responses of the brain and body<\/a> to internal and external changes. However, in different cultures, organs besides the brain are viewed as the origin of emotions. For example, in traditional Chinese philosophy and medicine, five main emotions are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/emotions-in-traditional-chinese-medicine-88196\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">generated and affected by different organs in the body<\/a>. For instance, the heart creates and is stimulated by joy, and the lungs create and store grief. Internal and external changes trigger emotions from our organs, and our brains are viewed as responsible only for our intellects.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-relate-to-your-emotions\">How to Relate to Your Emotions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Our feelings can provide valuable information, but they don\u2019t necessarily reflect the whole truth of a situation. This means that <strong>we shouldn\u2019t rely solely on emotions to dictate how we behave, make decisions, or interact with others<\/strong>, because, if we don\u2019t take a beat to consider other information or perspectives, we can hurt our relationships and get stuck in harmful ruts of behavior.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>However, because emotions <em>can<\/em> give you a clue about something you may need, it\u2019s helpful to develop a relationship with them to better understand and work with them. To do so, Smith says you should develop both <em>awareness<\/em> and <em>acceptance of your emotions<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/emotional-intelligence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Emotional Intelligence<\/em><\/a>, Daniel Goleman explains why emotions aren\u2019t complete and accurate reflections of reality: Emotions happen <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/emotional-intelligence\/1-page-summary#what-are-they\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">in response to our survival needs<\/a> and are crafted by the brain to spur us into immediate action without pausing to think rationally. The part of our brain responsible for emotions, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-does-the-limbic-system-do\/\">limbic system<\/a>, is already developed when we&#8217;re born, while the rational thinking part, the neocortex, keeps learning and changing as we grow. This means our emotional reactions to many things were already formed before we could understand them. Goleman agrees with Smith that even though we can&#8217;t change how we feel initially, we can learn healthy ways to respond to our emotions.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Develop awareness of your emotions.<\/strong> When you can consciously identify your emotions, you create space between you and your feelings so that you can pause, reflect, and assess the bigger picture. This enables you to act based on all available information as well as your values. When you\u2019re emotionally aware, you can also recognize what your emotions are telling you about what you need. Smith says emotions often try to communicate a physical need: You may be tired, over-caffeinated, hungry, too hot or cold, or you may need to move your body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/emotional-intelligence-2-0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Emotional Intelligence 2.0<\/em><\/a>, Travis Bradberry and Jean Greaves posit that having emotional awareness <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/emotional-intelligence-2-0\/chapter-5\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">is the same as having self-awareness<\/a>. Not only can self-aware people pause to figure out why they feel the way they do and act accordingly, but they can also use emotional experiences as learning opportunities to identify who or what makes them upset, figure out what they&#8217;re good at and what they&#8217;re not, and better understand what motivates them.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Practice <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/accepting-your-emotions\/\">accepting your emotions<\/a>. <\/strong>Many people fear feeling emotions because they\u2019re taught that emotions are inappropriate and should be hidden and denied, or because emotions can be overwhelming and frightening. But Smith writes that you shouldn\u2019t resist or attempt to escape your emotions, because trying to stop them actually makes you feel worse. Even when you can numb your emotions with things like alcohol, television, and social media, you\u2019re not actually making them disappear\u2014the emotions will be waiting for you once your distraction ends. In addition, those coping methods can be self-destructive or point us down a path that leads away from our long-term goals and values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Instead, understand that emotions are not permanent. Smith explains that if you can notice an emotion, accept that it\u2019s happening, and let yourself feel it, then the emotion will pass through you and dissipate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Not all cultures react to negative emotions by numbing and distracting themselves. Buddhists, for example, use <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eckhart-tolle-meditation-mindfulness\/\">meditation<\/a> to <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/when-things-fall-apart\/1-page-summary#practice-meditation-and-mindfulness\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mindfully observe their emotions without judgment and allow them to pass.<\/a> In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/when-things-fall-apart\/1-page-summary\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>When Things Fall Apart<\/em><\/a>, Pema Ch\u00f6dr\u00f6n explains that they do this because they see emotions as impermanent, and they believe clinging to them or, alternatively, trying to escape them only leads to suffering. Even in cultures that value this kind of emotional processing, though, there may still be individuals who engage in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/alcohol-as-a-coping-mechanism\/\">unhealthy coping<\/a> mechanisms. Regardless, these cultures tend to overall have a stronger sense of community, which can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nami.org\/Blogs\/NAMI-Blog\/November-2019\/The-Importance-of-Community-and-Mental-Health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">help people cope with difficult emotions in a healthy way<\/a>.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are emotions? When is it healthy to have challenging emotions? How aware of your own feelings are you? According to Dr. Julie Smith, the most important thing to know about emotions is that they are a normal part of the human experience. That goes for the highs and the lows. What matters most is that they match the situation. 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