{"id":115223,"date":"2023-10-15T16:27:00","date_gmt":"2023-10-15T20:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=115223"},"modified":"2023-10-18T15:36:09","modified_gmt":"2023-10-18T19:36:09","slug":"example-of-post-traumatic-growth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/example-of-post-traumatic-growth\/","title":{"rendered":"An Example of Post-Traumatic Growth: Paul Millerd&#8217;s Big Switch"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Have you experienced trauma? How might you turn it into something of value?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paul Millerd embarked on a conventional <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/career-path-development\/\">career path<\/a> by default. Two difficult events taught him one major lesson: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/working-too-much\/\">stop prioritizing work<\/a>, and start prioritizing life. He considers the shift he made to be an example of post-traumatic growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Continue reading to be inspired by Millerd&#8217;s story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-millerd-s-change-in-priorities\">Millerd\u2019s Change in Priorities<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Post-traumatic growth happens when a crisis impels you to reconsider your values and make positive life changes. Millerd&#8217;s inspiring story is an example of post-traumatic growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Millerd explains that, because his parents followed traditional career paths, he assumed that he would, too. In college, he joined the honors program, and the friends he made in that program taught him to prioritize the <em>appearance <\/em>of success over meaningful college experiences. He wanted to become part of the elite (recall that succeeding at political games opens countless doors), so he avoided challenging classes and internships in favor of easy experiences, like classes he knew he\u2019d ace, that he could use to pad his resume.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: The pressure to appear successful often begins with the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecrimson.com\/article\/2016\/1\/25\/staff-college-report\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">college application process<\/a>\u2014many high school students believe they won\u2019t get into top schools unless they meet unreasonable expectations regarding their academic success and extracurricular activities. Once they get into college, the pressure to perform continues, with many <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kqed.org\/mindshift\/60098\/college-students-say-academic-pressure-is-the-most-common-cause-of-mental-health-problems-and-not-just-at-highly-selective-institutions\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">college students reporting that their desire to appear successful negatively affects their mental health<\/a>. The pressure to become the best of the best may be linked to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.insidehighered.com\/news\/2015\/05\/27\/qa-author-new-book-how-elite-students-get-elite-jobs\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the pedigree effect<\/a> (the fact that elite workplaces mainly hire graduates from the most elite colleges): Failing to excel at any point along the way may harm your ability to get a high-earning job.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In the traditional workforce, Millerd vied for the top. He pursued a career in strategy consulting (advising businesses about their business strategies) because it was an elite profession: It paid six figures a year and earned respect. He landed jobs at prestigious businesses but left them quickly because they didn\u2019t satisfy him. It was a normal part of the work culture at these businesses to dream about continuing to move up the ladder, which reinforced <strong>Millerd\u2019s desire to accomplish better and better things<\/strong>\u2014as a result, he decided to go to a top business school and keep <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-climb-the-corporate-ladder\/\">climbing the corporate ladder<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Millerd explains that despite his accomplishments during his traditional career, he was never satisfied and always felt driven to achieve more. Psychologists note that this kind of perfectionism can result from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/compassion-matters\/201602\/whats-wrong-needing-be-the-best#:~:text=To%20strive%20for,from%20their%20parents.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">American culture\u2019s emphasis on competitiveness<\/a>, and it can have seriously negative consequences: For example, it can exacerbate <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/consequences-of-low-self-esteem\/\">self-esteem issues<\/a>, result in exhaustion, and even lead to an early death. To <a href=\"https:\/\/www.webmd.com\/balance\/features\/how-to-overcome-perfectionism#:~:text=Tips%20to%20Overcome,only%20one%20thing.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">tame your perfectionism<\/a>, experts recommend taking stock of the ways it\u2019s hurting you, setting more <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/set-realistic-goals\/\">realistic goals<\/a>, and creating healthy limits that help you know when enough\u2019s enough.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-millerd-s-priorities-changed\">Why Millerd\u2019s Priorities Changed<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Millerd\u2019s priorities changed because <strong>he had two painful experiences that caused him to question his values<\/strong>. The first was the death of his grandfather, whom he was close to, a month before Millerd started business school. While visiting his grandfather on his deathbed, Millerd realized his mind was still on his job\u2014and it bothered him that work was taking precedence over one of the most <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/important-relationships\/\">important relationships<\/a> of his life. This made him approach business school differently\u2014he decided to prioritize his relationships over his classes, and his grades suffered for it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a result of this change in priorities, he didn\u2019t get any of the elite job offers he\u2019d hoped for\u2014even his old job wouldn\u2019t hire him back\u2014and he ended up joining a more humble consulting business. Then, his second painful experience occurred: Immediately after he started there, he came down with a debilitating case of Lyme disease, and he had to take several months away from work. His identity was still fully wrapped up in his career, so he was desperate to return to work and keep achieving. However, that gradually began to change\u2014he started blogging about his illness to cope and discovered that he enjoyed writing. A friend also helped him realize people would still love him even if he didn\u2019t succeed in a traditional career.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Millerd says that, when he finally became healthy enough to return to work, he found it more disagreeable than he expected\u2014he was more interested in personal fulfillment than in the work itself. Upon reflection, he realized that while work used to be the most important thing to him, <strong>he now valued spending time with loved ones, taking care of his health, and enjoying life over excelling in his career.<\/strong> He attributes this to a process called \u201cpost-traumatic growth,\u201d where a crisis impels you to reconsider your values and make positive life changes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>How an Existential Crisis Can Shift Your Priorities<\/strong><br><br>Experts explain that it\u2019s common for painful events, like the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/death-of-a-loved-one\/\">loss of a loved one<\/a> or ill health, to cause you to reevaluate your priorities. That\u2019s because they can trigger an <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/living-emotional-intensity\/202204\/are-you-having-existential-crisis\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>existential crisis<\/em><\/a>\u2014the sense that you no longer know <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/your-genius\/\">who you are<\/a>, why you\u2019re living, or whether life can have any purpose or meaning, which is often accompanied by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/coping-with-existential-anxiety-4163485#:~:text=Identifying%20an%20Existential,Obsessive%20worry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">negative feelings<\/a> like sadness, anxiety, and loneliness. Existential crises are especially likely to happen <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/living-emotional-intensity\/201906\/existential-crisis-coming-home-ourselves#:~:text=True%20Self%2C%20False,to%20our%20spirit.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">when your \u201cfalse\u201d and \u201ctrue\u201d selves are at war with each other,<\/a> which occurs when you <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/making-life-choices\/\">make life choices<\/a> that make other people happy instead of pursuing what you authentically desire (for Millerd, this meant pursuing prestige over other meaningful parts of life).<br><br>An existential crisis can lead to negative outcomes. First, you may spiral into a deep depression that some experts refer to as \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatrictimes.com\/view\/psychiatry-dark-night-soul\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the dark night of the soul<\/a>,\u201d a phrase inspired by the Christian mystic tradition. During this time, you might feel unable to cope with or change your circumstances or feelings; a sense of hopelessness can ensue as a result. Psychologists explain that this is an intensely difficult process\u2014so difficult that some people choose to end their lives over it. However, there <em>is <\/em>hope: Experts say that the only way out of the dark night of the soul is to go through it. You must try your best to endure the discomfort, seeking help when necessary.<br><br>On the other side of this depressive state, transformation awaits. Because the feelings that accompany an existential crisis are so uncomfortable, you\u2019re prompted to reconsider your life choices, let go of your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/false-selves\/\">false self<\/a>, and discover and pursue your true values. As Millerd explains, psychologists refer to this process as <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2020\/07\/growth-after-trauma#:~:text=Although%20posttraumatic%20growth,offering%20compassionate%20feedback\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">post-traumatic growth<\/a>\u2014and experts say there are five steps you can take to help this process along:<br><br>First, learn more about the traumatic experience you\u2019ve just had: What happened, why did it happen, and what are the consequences?<br><br>Second, learn how to manage your negative emotions, for example via <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eckhart-tolle-meditation-mindfulness\/\">mindfulness<\/a> techniques.<br><br>Third, talk to someone (a professional or a friend) about your crisis\u2014this will help you gain understanding and feel less alone. It can also help to hear from others about their crises.<br><br>Fourth, decide on the story you\u2019re telling yourself about what happened; consider both what you\u2019ve lost <em>and <\/em>what you\u2019ve gained (like a new perspective or clearer priorities).<br><br>Finally, find a way to help others, as research suggests this can aid in healing and help you turn a negative into a positive.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Shift to Freelancing<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>When Millerd\u2019s priorities changed, he knew that he needed to redesign his life around them\u2014and the freelancers he encountered taught him that it was possible to design a life he\u2019d truly enjoy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a freelancer, Millerd experienced total autonomy for the first time\u2014he could work on his own terms, which energized him. However, he realized that he still defined his identity in terms of his career, which prompted him to think about his identity outside of work. He decided to prioritize recreation ahead of work and took a break from relentlessly pursuing freelance opportunities that forced him to work on projects he didn\u2019t truly care about.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As a result of his choice to prioritize recreation, Millerd had a surge in creativity\u2014he revamped his blog, started a podcast, and eventually started designing his own online consulting courses. This experience taught him that creative work was the only work he really found joy in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Altogether, Millerd\u2019s early freelancing experiences taught him that he wanted to work just enough to sustain himself and no more than that\u2014<strong>he was now fully committed to living life to the fullest by prioritizing recreation, exploration, and joy.<\/strong> He got rid of most of his belongings, moved to Taipei, Taiwan, and embraced a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-is-a-minimalist-lifestyle\/\">minimalist lifestyle<\/a>: few possessions and few responsibilities. This enabled him to lower his cost of living so that he could focus on his new priorities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Millerd also decided that, instead of living for the weekend or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-enjoy-retirement\/\">waiting for retirement<\/a> to do what he cared about, he\u2019d incorporate exploration into his regular life by devoting intense energy to a new experience (like learning a new language or traveling) for a short period of time, then resting and moving on. He explains that this is a great way to experiment with what makes you happy\u2014you\u2019re not exhausting yourself by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/overcommitment\/\">overcommitting<\/a>, and you gradually figure out what really makes you happy and should be incorporated into your day-to-day life when you do eventually retire.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you experienced trauma? How might you turn it into something of value? 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