{"id":11381,"date":"2020-07-15T17:37:00","date_gmt":"2020-07-15T21:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=11381"},"modified":"2022-04-01T15:34:26","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T19:34:26","slug":"how-to-avoid-being-manipulated","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-avoid-being-manipulated\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You a Sucker? How to Avoid Being Manipulated"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Have you ever thought that someone was trying to trick you? Could you tell they were using persuasion tactics<\/a> to convince you? Do you know how to avoid being manipulated?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Compliance practitioners are professional persuaders. They are able to manipulate you into agreeing even if you are trying to avoid manipulation. For each of the six principles of persuasion<\/a>, there are key strategies to learn if you want to know how to avoid being manipulated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Avoid Manipulation by Compliance Practitioners<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

While our fixed-action patterns are usually an asset for us in everyday life, they are easily manipulated and exploited by compliance practitioners. <\/strong>These are professional persuaders, people whose job it is to get you to say \u201cyes\u201d to whatever it is they\u2019re offering. But don’t get tricked. You can avoid manipulation.
<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Most compliance practitioners use six psychological principles of persuasion<\/a>:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Reciprocity<\/li>
  2. Commitment\/Consistency<\/li>
  3. Social proof<\/a><\/li>
  4. Liking<\/li>
  5. Authority <\/li>
  6. Scarcity<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    How to Avoid Being Manipulated by Reciprocity<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Compliance practitioners know that you\u2019re more likely to feel obliged to them if they present you some small gift or token gesture of kindness before they make their request. Or they\u2019ll ask for an initially ludicrous request that you\u2019ll reject, only to present you with a second, smaller request. This rejection-then-retreat tactic is designed to lull you into making a reciprocal concession<\/a> by giving in to their second ask.<\/strong>
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    To avoid manipulation using this kind of reciprocity, you have to distinguish between people who are engaging in genuine acts of kindness and those who are simply trying to trick you into doing something for them. You are <\/em>socially obligated to return a genuine favor with another favor: you\u2019re not <\/em>obligated to return a trick with a favor.<\/strong>
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    How to Avoid Being Manipulated by Commitment\/Consistency<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Consistency and commitment<\/a> can also be exploited. Our desire for internal consistency can turn even a small commitment into larger and larger ones<\/strong>.
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    You can feel it intuitively when you\u2019re being asked to do something you don\u2019t want to do. The key to fighting back is spotting these situations quickly. Otherwise the compliance professional will corner you with your own commitment. You should then turn the table on the compliance practitioner. Tell them that you\u2019re onto them and you know exactly <\/em>what they\u2019re trying to do. Don’t get tricked. Make decisions for a reason: don\u2019t make reasons for a decision.<\/strong>
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    How to Avoid Being Manipulated by Social Proof<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Social proof can also be faked or manufactured, however, or used for self-serving purposes by compliance practitioners.<\/strong> It\u2019s why so many product advertisements talk about being the \u201cfastest-growing\u201d or \u201chighest-selling\u201d: the marketers want to convince you that there\u2019s a groundswell of demand for the product from others. Don’t get tricked by these tactics.
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    To understand how to resist manipulation, you need to look closer at group behavior<\/a>. Is there a reason to do something, beyond just the fact that everyone else <\/em>is doing it? <\/strong>Don\u2019t be like a pilot who flies by relying solely on her instruments. You also need to actually see the sky in front of you. Sometimes you do <\/em>need to look critically at the world around you, take the time to assess situations, think for yourself<\/a>, and apply your own individual judgment.
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    How to Avoid Being Manipulated by Liking<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    There\u2019s nothing wrong with liking people, and usually someone\u2019s charm or warmth indicates that they are <\/em>trustworthy and reliable. But if you want to know how to resist manipulation, you need to evaluate each situation on the merits. If you feel that you are strongly liking someone after only being briefly acquainted with them, you need to pause and assess what is producing these feelings. Always separate your personal feelings for the person <\/em>trying to sell you something from the thing <\/em>you\u2019re actually looking to buy. Judge your potential decision solely on the merits: don\u2019t comply with a request just because you like the requester.<\/strong>
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    How to Avoid Being Manipulated by Authority<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Authority can also be abused and exploited<\/strong>. In the famous Milgram experiment at Yale, ordinary people were shown to be highly vulnerable to pressure from an authority figure who instructed them to administer painful and dangerous electric shocks to fellow experiment participants. 
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Don’t get tricked. To avoid getting suckered, don\u2019t blindly obey authority. Always assess an authority figure\u2019s credentials and the relevance <\/em>of those credentials<\/strong>. A cop telling you to pull over is a legitimate authority figure whose training and expertise clearly compel you to comply in this situation. An actor who plays a doctor on a TV show, on the other hand, is not a legitimate authority from which to take medical advice in a pharmaceutical commercial. Their training is as an actor, not as a physician. You know how to resist manipulation if you can identify real authority.
    <\/p>\n\n\n\n

    How to Avoid Being Manipulated by Scarcity<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

    Compliance practitioners know how to twist this instinct to their own advantage. It\u2019s why we see so many \u201climited-time only\u201d or \u201cfirst-come, first-serve\u201d sales pitches: the goal is to drive you into a scarcity frenzy that forces you to suspend your better judgment<\/strong> and rush headlong into an ill-considered decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    To avoid manipulation this way, you need to ask yourself if you truly wish to use the item for its intended purpose, or if you merely wish to possess it because of the rarity itself. Do you really want that sports car because of its inherent features, or do you just want it because so few other people have it? If your answer is the latter, then you\u2019ve probably fallen into a scarcity compliance trap. This self-questioning is how to resist manipulation. You should want things because of their intrinsic value, not because of their rarity or status.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    Have you ever thought that someone was trying to trick you? Could you tell they were using persuasion tactics to convince you? Do you know how to avoid being manipulated? Compliance practitioners are professional persuaders. They are able to manipulate you into agreeing even if you are trying to avoid manipulation. For each of the six principles of persuasion, there are key strategies to learn if you want to know how to avoid being manipulated.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":11401,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[104,9],"tags":[101],"class_list":["post-11381","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-marketing","category-psychology","tag-influence","","tg-column-two"],"yoast_head":"\nAre You a Sucker? 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