{"id":112390,"date":"2023-09-01T13:19:00","date_gmt":"2023-09-01T17:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=112390"},"modified":"2023-09-05T16:01:59","modified_gmt":"2023-09-05T20:01:59","slug":"core-communication-skills","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/core-communication-skills\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Core Communication Skills + Tips for Making Them Your Own"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Do you have a reputation as a good listener? Does it feel like you have to repeat yourself a lot? Do you get easily triggered, or do you seem to set other people off emotionally?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Communicating effectively with others is a crucial skill\u2014it\u2019s how we build and maintain relationships, solve problems, and accomplish tasks. However, James Williams explains that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-communicate-effectively\/\">good communication skills<\/a> don\u2019t come naturally\u2014instead, they\u2019re built up over time through intentional practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading to learn about four core communication skills and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-practice\/\">how to practice<\/a> them in your everyday life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4 Core Communication Skills<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em>Communication Skills Training, <\/em>Williams outlines the core abilities of effective communication and provides practical tips on how to develop them so you can express yourself well, build your charisma, and win people over. Let&#8217;s take a look at each core communication skill.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-skill-1-active-listening\">Skill #1: Active Listening<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams explains that <strong>to communicate effectively, you must fully understand the other person\u2014not just the content of their statement, but the emotions and intent behind it.<\/strong> To form this understanding, you must <em>actively listen<\/em>. Pay attention not just to what they say, but how they say it\u2014their tone, word choice, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/body-language-crucial-conversations\/\">body language<\/a>, and so on. If you don\u2019t, you may misunderstand the other person\u2014or miss their main point\u2014and therefore respond inappropriately.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, your friend might be telling you about their son\u2019s soccer game and an encounter they had with a mean person there. Their eyebrows knit and their tone sounds dejected\u2014their intent was to express their hurt feelings from the encounter. However, you respond by asking who won the soccer game because you weren\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-pay-attention\/\">paying attention<\/a> to the smaller details that indicated which part of the person\u2019s story was most important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams provides four main tips for <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-practice-active-listening\/\">practicing active listening<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #1: Prepare to Receive the Other Person\u2019s Message<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>To prepare to receive the other person\u2019s message, Williams makes three main recommendations. First, make eye contact. Second, fully concentrate on the other person. Third, keep an open mind so you can receive their message without making judgments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #2: Receive Their Message<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>To effectively receive someone\u2019s message, Williams says you must continue to focus entirely on the other person. Listen to what they say and <em>don\u2019t<\/em> say, and try to pick up on their emotions by paying attention to their tone, facial expressions, body movements, and so on. Avoid thinking about your response to their message or making judgments on what they\u2019ve said\u2014you can\u2019t listen and reflect at the same time. Further, show the other person you\u2019re listening by nodding along or giving vocal <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/affirmation-and-visualization-7-habits\/\">affirmations<\/a> like \u201cmhm.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #3: Prepare to Respond<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams says to make sure the other person is completely finished speaking before you formulate your response. Plan to match your emotions to theirs\u2014this will help you respond appropriately. For instance, if they seem sad and muted, avoid being inappropriately exuberant and joyful. Further, make sure you respond to the <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/core-message\/\">main point<\/a><\/em> they\u2019re making rather than the unimportant details.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #4: Respond Effectively<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When you respond, Williams recommends showing the other person you understand them by sharing your interpretation of what they said, explained in your own words. Further, avoid responses that might indicate you\u2019re uninterested in listening to them or want to make things about yourself\u2014for instance, offering advice, pity, corrections, comfort, or personal stories, or trying to one-up them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Skill #2: Establishing Connection<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Next, Williams explains that effective communicators must establish connections with others<\/strong>. This is because as factors in your life change, such as your job or where you live, you\u2019ll be forced to meet new people and build new relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams offers four main tips for building new connections:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #1: Mind Your Confidence<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams explains that it\u2019s important to enter conversations with confidence and high self-esteem. When you\u2019re confident, other people will see you as credible, which leads to a more effective conversation. Williams notes you can express confidence through your non-verbal communication\u2014your tone, body language, expressions, and so on. Specifically, sit up straight with your shoulders back and your chin high. Further, monitor your tone\u2014being too quiet can make you seem timid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip# 2: Be Authentic<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite monitoring your words, tone, and body language, Williams warns not to censor yourself <em>too<\/em> much. Be your authentic self\u2014people are attracted to authenticity. For example, if you\u2019re a jokester, use humor, and if you\u2019re into more philosophical topics, discuss them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #3: Find Common Ground<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams explains that finding common ground\u2014shared interests, dislikes, experiences, and so on\u2014is one of the best ways to establish a connection with someone. It\u2019ll also help you further your connection by giving you natural conversation topics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>However,<\/strong> <strong>Williams warns against asking the other person specific personal questions too soon<\/strong>\u2014this can make people defensive, especially when you\u2019re first getting to know them. Instead, be more general: Ask them to tell you more about themselves so they can offer up whatever information they feel comfortable disclosing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #4: Pay Attention to Personality<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams recommends figuring out the person&#8217;s personality type and tailoring your communication to match their type&#8217;s preferred communication style. For instance, if your conversation partner is impatient and focused on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/what-is-the-main-point\/\">getting to the point<\/a>, be direct with them and avoid mentioning any unnecessary details that they may see as a waste of time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Skill #3: Emotional Control<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams explains that <strong>emotional control is central to effective communication because, when we\u2019re unable to control strong emotions, we tend to express ourselves poorly<\/strong>\u2014for example, by yelling, making accusations, or failing to clearly explain our message. When we express ourselves in such ways, the other person will likely struggle to understand us, and they may even become offended and shut us out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here are four tips for controlling your own strong emotions and avoiding triggering them in others:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #1: Manage Your Emotional Triggers&nbsp;<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams advises learning what types of situations and pet peeves trigger your strong emotions.<strong> <\/strong>That way, you can prepare for these situations in advance and catch yourself before you react emotionally. For example, when you anticipate a trigger, close your eyes and imagine petting your dog to calm yourself down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #2: Overcome Negative Assumptions<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Often, we react emotionally due to negative assumptions we make about others and their intentions. For example, if someone\u2019s tone seems demeaning to you, you might get angry and accuse them of patronizing you. To avoid this, Williams recommends replacing negative assumptions with positive ones. For instance, instead of patronizing you, maybe this person is trying to be gentle so they don\u2019t hurt your feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you can\u2019t convince yourself of positive intent, <strong>avoid resentment by simply accepting that everyone is different and has their own flaws and characteristics<\/strong>\u2014you can\u2019t control people, so accept them for who they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #3: Write Out Your Thoughts<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When you feel strong emotions like anger or stress, Williams says to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/writing-down-your-thoughts\/\">write down your thoughts<\/a> and feelings to release them. This will also help you determine how rational your emotional reactions are\u2014writing helps you organize your thoughts so you can make a more accurate judgment on whether or not your feelings are reasonable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #4: Be Respectful<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When talking about your emotions, Williams recommends using \u201cI feel\u201d statements to express yourself\u2014for example, \u201cI feel hurt about what happened\u201d or \u201cI feel anxious about this situation.\u201d This will help you avoid making unfair accusations, even when you\u2019re angry or believe the other person\u2019s at fault because you\u2019re focusing on describing your emotions rather than the other person\u2019s actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Further, focus on the issue at hand\u2014don\u2019t bring up unrelated past issues that you&#8217;re harboring negative emotions about. This could upset the other person and ignite negative emotions for you as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Skill #4: Accuracy and Clarity<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams explains that expressing yourself accurately and clearly is crucial. If you don\u2019t, the other person will likely misunderstand you, and you\u2019ll fail to achieve your goal for the conversation.&nbsp; He offers the following tips for staying accurate and clear:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #1: Communicate About Important Topics Face-to-Face<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams suggests holding important conversations face-to-face, not via text messaging, noting that misunderstandings are much more common in written communication like texts or emails. This is because you\u2019re not able to pick up on nonverbal elements like tone, body language, and facial expressions, which are important to understanding the other person&#8217;s feelings and intent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #2: Be Concise and Direct<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Williams recommends using as few words as possible whenever you communicate\u2014the fewer words you use, the less room there is for misinterpretation. Further, directly state what you want or need to make it easier for the other person to understand your message.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tip #3: Check For Understanding<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Rather than assuming you and the other person understand each other, Williams says you must regularly check in by summarizing what\u2019s happened in the discussion so far and ensuring the other person is on the same page.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you have a reputation as a good listener? 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