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Do you tend to raise your voice or stop listening when you get frustrated? When you’re angry, do all of the right words come out in the right order?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Emotions are a huge part of life. So is communication. When emotions and communication come together, the message often gets lost. That’s why James Williams identifies emotional control as a core communication skill<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Continue reading to learn how to effectively handle emotions in communication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Managing Emotions in Communication<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Williams explains that emotional control is central to effective communication because, when we\u2019re unable to control strong emotions, we tend to express ourselves poorly\u2014for example, by yelling, making accusations, or failing to clearly explain our message. When we express ourselves in such ways, the other person will likely struggle to understand us, and they may even become offended and shut us out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: The authors of Difficult Conversations<\/em><\/a> add that effectively controlling and expressing your emotions is not only crucial to being understood by the other person but also to being able to understand them<\/em>.<\/a> They explain that when you bottle up your emotions<\/a>, you end up distracted by your inner turmoil and focus on that rather than what the other person is saying.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are four tips on how to control your own strong emotions in communication. These recommendations will also help you avoid triggering strong emotions in others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tip #1: Manage Your Emotional Triggers <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Williams advises learning what types of situations and pet peeves trigger your strong emotions. <\/strong>That way, you can prepare for these situations in advance and catch yourself before you react emotionally. For example, when you anticipate a trigger, close your eyes and imagine petting your dog to calm yourself down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: In Thanks for the Feedback<\/em><\/a>, <\/em>Douglas Stone and Sheila Heen agree that understanding your triggers is an important part of controlling strong emotions, particularly when receiving feedback<\/a>. They elaborate that there are three types of triggers<\/a>. Truth triggers<\/em> are reactions to things we feel are wrong, unfair, or unhelpful. Relationship triggers<\/a><\/em> are responses to the person we\u2019re interacting with rather than the content of what they\u2019re saying. Identity triggers<\/em> are responses to situations that threaten our sense of self.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tip #2: Overcome Negative Assumptions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Often, we react emotionally due to negative assumptions we make about others and their intentions. For example, if someone\u2019s tone seems demeaning to you, you might get angry and accuse them of patronizing you. To avoid this, Williams recommends replacing negative assumptions with positive ones. For instance, instead of patronizing you, maybe this person is trying to be gentle so they don\u2019t hurt your feelings. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: This process of overcoming negative assumptions is part of a strategy called cognitive restructuring<\/a>, which helps people overcome negative thought patterns<\/a> in general. While it\u2019s possible to complete this process on your own, experts explain that it\u2019s best to practice first with a therapist\u2014this will help you more effectively develop your restructuring skills so you can use them on your own in the future. One method of restructuring you can practice with a therapist is Socratic questioning<\/a>\u2014this teaches you to evaluate your negative assumptions to determine if they\u2019re biased or illogical.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you can\u2019t convince yourself of positive intent, avoid resentment by simply accepting that everyone is different and has their own flaws and characteristics<\/strong>\u2014you can\u2019t control people, so accept them for who they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: While accepting people\u2019s flaws is an important part of relationships, experts advise being careful that you\u2019re not taking this advice too far and inadvertently accepting abusive<\/a> behaviors<\/a>. This can be extremely damaging and result in conditions like PTSD. Signs of abuse include<\/a> a partner or loved one belittling you, trying to isolate you from others, intimidating you verbally or physically, or making you feel like you\u2019re always wrong.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tip #3: Write Out Your Thoughts<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When you feel strong emotions like anger or stress, Williams says to write down your thoughts<\/a> and feelings to release them. This will also help you determine how rational your emotional reactions are\u2014writing helps you organize your thoughts so you can make a more accurate judgment on whether or not your feelings are reasonable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform: Experts note that journaling has more benefits than just helping you rationalize and release your emotions. It can also help you take positive action toward your goals, make better decisions, and track your personal development<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tip #4: Be Respectful<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

When talking about your emotions, Williams recommends using \u201cI feel\u201d statements to express yourself\u2014for example, \u201cI feel hurt about what happened\u201d or \u201cI feel anxious about this situation.\u201d This will help you avoid making unfair accusations, even when you\u2019re angry or believe the other person\u2019s at fault because you\u2019re focusing on describing your emotions rather than the other person\u2019s actions. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Experts warn that for \u201cI feel\u201d statements to be effective, you must ensure you\u2019re using them to describe your emotions<\/em>, not to make assumptions about the other person\u2019s intent<\/em><\/a>. For example, don\u2019t<\/em> say \u201cI feel like you were trying to belittle with that tone.\u201d Instead, say \u201cI felt belittled<\/em> when you talked to me in that tone.\u201d This statement avoids accusations and simply expresses that their actions hurt you, whether it was their intent or not.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Further, focus on the issue at hand\u2014don\u2019t bring up unrelated past issues that you’re harboring negative emotions about. This could upset the other person and ignite negative emotions for you as well<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Bringing up past issues, a phenomenon called \u201ckitchen-sinking,\u201d is often the result of another communication issue called \u201cgunnysacking\u201d<\/a>: harboring issues over time rather than handling them at the moment. Your frustration builds up until, eventually, it comes out during a moment of tension. To avoid gunnysacking and kitchen-sinking, discuss issues as they arise, and don\u2019t avoid conflict<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Exercise: Control Your Emotions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Williams explains that a crucial part of communicating effectively is being able to control strong emotions. In this exercise, consider a past experience involving strong emotions and identify techniques you can use to handle your feelings more effectively in the future.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. Think of a recent conversation where you experienced strong emotions that impacted your ability to communicate effectively. What emotion(s) did you feel, and what triggered you to feel that way? (For example, maybe you recently got annoyed at someone because you felt they were overexplaining. This led to you interrupting them, which offended them.)<\/li>
  2. When encountering the trigger you identified above in the future, what steps can you take that will make you feel calmer? (For example, you can envision yourself floating in the ocean or cuddling with your cat.)<\/li>
  3. Identify any negative assumptions that sparked your strong emotions. For each negative assumption, brainstorm a positive belief you can replace it with. (For example, if you assume the other person\u2019s over-explaining because they think you’re stupid, consider that maybe they were just trying to be helpful and make sure you understood them completely.)<\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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