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Do you play enough with your kids? Do you know how to use playful parenting as a tool?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dr. Becky Kennedy suggests specific approaches for handling parenting challenges<\/a> so that you can foster behavioral change without jeopardizing your connection to your child. She discusses four ways that playful parenting helps you deal with challenges.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Continue reading to understand how you can use playfulness strategically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Playful Parenting<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Kennedy encourages playful parenting\u2014the use of play and silliness to help your child feel safe<\/strong>. Being playful and making her laugh lets her know that she\u2019s safe and she can be herself around you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: The authors of The Whole-Brain Child<\/em><\/a> <\/em>offer tips to tailor your use of playfulness to your child\u2019s age and developmental maturity<\/a>. For example, with a very young child (ages 0-3), you might join her on the ground to play with her toys, whereas, with an older child (ages 9-12), you might invite her to join you in activities such as sports or cooking.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Challenge #1: Getting Your Child to Listen<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Kennedy argues that if you believe your child doesn\u2019t listen to you, the issue isn\u2019t listening, but cooperating<\/strong>\u2014in other words, your child isn\u2019t complying with your requests. When your kid doesn\u2019t cooperate, it\u2019s likely because they\u2019re feeling disconnected<\/a> from you or because you\u2019re asking them to do something they don\u2019t want to do. The latter is the nature of parenting, but there are ways to make your requests less confrontational and more engaging<\/strong>. Yelling, for example, only makes your child less likely to cooperate because they\u2019ll be in fight or flight mode.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To make your requests less confrontational, Kennedy recommends using the following tools: 1) validation, 2) connection, and 3) playfulness. Let’s look at how playful parenting, specifically, helps you meet this challenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kennedy suggests sprinkling some silliness onto your asks, especially the less enticing ones. For example, close your eyes and say that if the task is done by the time you open them, you\u2019ll run around the room in a victory lap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: In The Whole-Brain Child<\/em><\/a>, <\/em>Siegel and Bryson explain another benefit of playfulness: It helps your child integrate with other people. Showing your child how fun and rewarding it is to be in a relationship with you\u2014<\/em>her first and primary relationship\u2014will encourage her to build healthy relationships with other people<\/em><\/a>, as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Challenge #2: Dealing With Fearful, Anxious, & Crying Kids<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Fears, anxiety, and crying\u2014even \u201cfake\u201d crying\u2014are expressions of vulnerability. <\/strong>Kennedy explains that when children perceive a threat, their bodies feel fear or anxiety. When they feel sadness, they cry. When they feel disconnected from their caregivers, they pretend-cry to secure that connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kennedy argues that parents often shut down these expressions of vulnerability because they trigger uncomfortable feelings related to their own vulnerability. You might try to convince your child to stop being sad, anxious, or afraid, or even shame her for feeling that way. But this teaches her that these feelings are wrong and to be avoided, which leaves her unprepared for real life. Instead, support her through those feelings so she develops the tools to work through them in the future<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To help your child learn to work through her vulnerable feelings, Kennedy suggests the following tools: 1) confidence-building, 2) validation and empathy, and 3) playfulness. Let’s look at how playful parenting, specifically, helps you meet this challenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Take advantage of your child\u2019s favorite stories and characters to start conversations<\/a> about emotions. For example, Kennedy recommends pointing out when fictional characters cry and talking about how they must be feeling, or role-playing challenging situations using your child’s stuffed animals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: The authors of The Whole-Brain Child<\/em><\/a> <\/em>say that besides helping your kid deal with her own emotions, thinking about how others feel helps develop empathy and compassion<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Challenge #3: Soothing Separation Anxiety & Bedtime Struggles<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

As we\u2019ve seen, children are evolutionarily wired to attach to their parents because this ensures their survival. Separation anxiety\u2014which manifests as crying, tantrumming, and other behaviors that happen when you say goodbye to your child\u2014is a result of this wiring. Kennedy explains that when you separate from her, she\u2019ll need to retain the sense of safety your presence gives her without having you with her<\/strong>. At bedtime, separation anxiety<\/a> is compounded by the fact that your child needs to feel safe to fall asleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To deal with separation anxiety, Kennedy suggests using these three tools: 1) connection, 2) confidence-building, and 3) playfulness. Let’s look at how playful parenting, specifically, helps you meet this challenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kennedy suggests that before you separate, you hug your child tight and playfully \u201ccheck\u201d her to see if her tank\u2019s topped up with enough parental love. Hug her several times until she\u2019s all \u201ctopped up\u201d and then give her an extra hug so she has \u201cextra\u201d parental love to tide her over until your next moment together.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

(Shortform note: Besides playfulness, Kennedy\u2019s \u201ctop-up\u201d game uses the power of touch. In No-Drama Discipline<\/em><\/a>, <\/em>the authors explain that positive touch releases stress-relieving hormones in the brain, which help children (and adults) calm down<\/a>.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Challenge #4: Raising Deeply Feeling Kids<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Kennedy warns that some kids\u2014those she calls \u201cdeeply feeling\u201d kids\u2014might not respond well to her strategies. Some kids feel their emotions more intensely than others, and as a result have more intense reactions:<\/strong> their tantrums, for example, are more frequent, challenging, and easier to spark than other children\u2019s. This is compounded by the fact that these children also notice the comparative intensity of their feelings and reactions, and they fear that they\u2019re unloveable and that their parents won\u2019t be able to deal with them. This fills them with shame and fear, which only serves to make their reactions harsher and make it harder for parents to find ways to approach them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kennedy suggests using the tools of boundaries and playfulness to deal with a child who has very intense emotions and reactions. Let’s look at how playful parenting, specifically, helps you meet this challenge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get creative to explore your child\u2019s feelings. <\/strong>Kennedy explains that children with intense emotions easily fall into shame when discussing their feelings because they get overwhelmed by the intensity and by the intrusion of others into their inner world. Instead of trying to get her to talk about her feelings, tell your child that she can close her eyes and even hide while you ask questions. She just needs to show you a thumbs up or down to let you know what her answers are. This will help your child slowly feel more comfortable expressing her feelings.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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