{"id":108875,"date":"2023-07-20T14:57:00","date_gmt":"2023-07-20T18:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=108875"},"modified":"2023-07-28T09:29:06","modified_gmt":"2023-07-28T13:29:06","slug":"fierce-conversations-model","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/fierce-conversations-model\/","title":{"rendered":"Fierce Conversations: 2 Models for Effective Discussions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>What are <em>Fierce Conversations&#8217;<\/em> models for truthful discussions? How can you have a productive conversation in small and large groups?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In <em>Fierce Conversations<\/em>, Susan Scott explains that you must choose an effective conversational model to structure important discussions. Following a conversational model is crucial because it allows you to respectfully introduce the topic and learn from all perspectives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Below are two models from <em>Fierce Conversations<\/em> that you can use for small groups or large meetings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-model-1-conversing-in-small-groups\"><strong>Model #1: Conversing in Small Groups<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The first <em>Fierce Conversations<\/em> model is intended to be used for intimate conversations with one or a few people and can be used in personal or corporate situations. <strong>Its purpose is to find the root of an issue and surface effective and sustainable solutions by uncovering other peoples\u2019 truths<\/strong>\u2014the thoughts, feelings, and perspectives that are important to the topic but that participants may be hesitant to acknowledge and discuss. To structure your discussion according to this model, take the following steps:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-1-succinctly-explain-the-issue\">Step #1: Succinctly Explain the Issue<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Your opening statement must be succinct while providing the necessary details for the other person to fully understand the issue<\/strong>. You should express your desire to discuss the topic, provide an example to illustrate the issue, explain how it\u2019s impacting you emotionally and why the issue is important, acknowledge any role you\u2019ve played in the issue, and express your desire to solve it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For example, \u201cI\u2019d like to talk about your mental health. You seem very emotional lately\u2014for example, when you yelled at me yesterday for forgetting to buy milk. That startled me and made me feel guilty, and I think this issue has the potential to create distance between us and damage our relationship if it continues. I acknowledge that I might be playing a role in this issue by not being as thoughtful lately, and I want to try and come to a solution so we can make sure you&#8217;re feeling mentally healthy and happy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-2-ask-for-the-other-person-s-perspective\">Step #2: Ask for the Other Person\u2019s Perspective<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Once you\u2019ve explained the issue you want to discuss,<strong> invite others into the conversation by asking them to share their perspective on the issue<\/strong>\u2014what the issue is, how it\u2019s impacting them, and what they think might be at stake. 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If each of these perspectives isn\u2019t exposed, important details may be overlooked, which could result in poor solutions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To structure your discussion according to this model, Scott provides the following guidelines:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-1-invite-your-participants\">Step #1: Invite Your Participants<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>In your invitation, brief these people on the topic to save time during the meeting\u2014define the issue and its importance, and explain what their role is in the meeting. You can also include any background information that they should know before the meeting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-2-open-the-meeting\">Step #2: Open the Meeting<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>First, remove all distractions\u2014no electronics, multitasking, or note-taking. Then, verbally review your topic preparation, and pass out paper copies to attendees once you\u2019re done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-3-open-the-floor\">Step #3: Open the Floor<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Invite people to ask clarifying questions. Then, request that they perform the role you requested in the invitation\u2014providing information, feedback, advice, and so on. Ensure everyone in the meeting speaks, and directly request input from those who don&#8217;t speak up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-4-close-the-meeting\">Step #4: Close the Meeting<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Have everyone write down how they\u2019d handle the situation if they were you and share their answer aloud. Afterward, summarize the feedback you received, and ask if you forgot anything. Thank everyone for participating.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What are Fierce Conversations&#8217; models for truthful discussions? 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