{"id":107196,"date":"2023-07-06T12:21:10","date_gmt":"2023-07-06T16:21:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=107196"},"modified":"2023-07-11T17:31:12","modified_gmt":"2023-07-11T21:31:12","slug":"focus-on-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/focus-on-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Focus on Relationships &#038; Give People Your Attention"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>How well do you give other people your time and attention? What are some practical ways to focus on relationships that you want to maintain?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In today&#8217;s world, it&#8217;s easy to become distracted from what&#8217;s really important because of phones and other technology. With the help of <em>The Good Life<\/em> by Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz, you can give the people you love the attention they deserve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Check out how to focus on relationships that can benefit from some work on your part.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-focus-on-relationships\">Focus on Relationships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Waldinger and Schulz assert that, when you focus on relationships, you can you improve them. In the modern world, our brains have grown accustomed to constant distraction from our devices. As a result, we struggle to maintain our focus on a single thing\u2014including whoever we\u2019re spending time with. This lack of engagement hampers our ability to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eckhart-tolle-relationships-how-to-be-present\/\">connect with others<\/a>.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So how can you pay better attention to the people you\u2019re with? Waldinger and Schulz recommend that you improve your ability to be present in general (and therefore, present with others) by <strong>practicing <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/eckhart-tolle-meditation-mindfulness\/\">mindfulness<\/a>. <\/strong>To do so, make it a point in your daily life to spend some time <em>noticing <\/em>things that haven\u2019t captured your attention before in places you frequent\u2014perhaps the breeze in your office.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Waldinger and Schulz add that you can apply this practice in your relationships: When speaking with someone, <strong>ask yourself what you might<\/strong><strong><em> not<\/em><\/strong><strong> be noticing <\/strong>and use that gap to guide your conversation. For example, if a friend is unusually upset about your tardiness, probe a bit deeper\u2014perhaps your chronic lateness is getting on their nerves, or they\u2019re upset because they fought with their mother. Studies indicate that the act of intentionally trying to empathize and connect with others can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-improve-your-relationships-2\/\">improve your relationship<\/a>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>How Mindfulness Improves Focus and Relationships<\/strong><br><br>In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/hyperfocus\/1-page-summary\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Hyperfocus<\/em><\/a>, Chris Bailey elaborates on how mindfulness improves your ability to focus. Whenever you do a task (like holding a conversation), <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/hyperfocus\/1-page-summary#the-5-steps-of-hyperfocus\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">it occupies part of your <em>working memory<\/em><\/a>, which holds information your mind is actively processing. You have a limited <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/improve-working-memory-moonwalking-with-einstein\/\">working memory<\/a> capacity<\/em>, so if you try to focus on too many things at once, you\u2019ll exceed it and lose focus. But <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/hyperfocus\/chapter-5-1#how-increasing-your-working-memory-capacity-improves-your-ability-to-hyperfocus\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">practicing mindfulness increases your working memory capacity<\/a>. This allows you to focus on more complex tasks (like a conversation). Plus, researchers have found that the greater your <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/working-memory-capacity\/\">working memory capacity<\/a>, the less prone you are to distraction.<br><br>In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/wherever-you-go-there-you-are\/1-page-summary\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Where You Go, There You Are<\/em><\/a>, Jon Kabat-Zinn provides further tips on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-practice\/\">how to practice<\/a> mindfulness and so improve how present you are in your daily life. Kabat-Zinn recommends that when you practice noticing your environment, you <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/wherever-you-go-there-you-are\/1-page-summary#mindfulness-in-your-daily-life\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">use your breath as your focal point<\/a>. Pay attention to what it feels like to have your breath move in and out of your body.&nbsp;<br><br>Similarly, <a href=\"https:\/\/extension.okstate.edu\/fact-sheets\/mindful-conversations-using-mindfulness-in-talking-with-aging-loved-ones.html#:~:text=Add%20mindfulness%20to%20your%20active,there%20is%20an%20added%20step.\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">other experts suggest adding a moment of mindfulness when you\u2019re practicing active listening<\/a>. This technique involves repeating what the other person said to ensure that you&#8217;ve understood it correctly before you respond to their comments\u2014but instead of jumping straight to the repeating portion, take a moment to be mindful and consider the<strong> <\/strong>emotions that may be driving the other person&#8217;s comments before you respond.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Additionally, Waldinger and Schulz suggest that you <strong>minimize the potential damage of your screen use. <\/strong>When using social media, prioritize communicating over browsing; the latter can make you feel worse about your own life because you\u2019re comparing your reality to the highlights that others post online. If you notice that your screen time negatively affects your mood, decrease the time you spend on your devices. Ask the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/the-people-closest-to-you\/\">people closest to you<\/a> whether your screen time bothers them; if so, reevaluate it. Finally, create pockets of time when you don\u2019t check your devices at all so you can focus fully on those who matter most and also evaluate how <em>you <\/em>feel when you take a break from screens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>Why Screens Are So Addicting\u2014And How to Stop Using Them&nbsp;<\/strong><br><br>One of the biggest contributors to screen time is social media use. In <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/dopamine-detox\/1-page-summary\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Dopamine Detox<\/em><\/a>, Thibaut Meurisse explains <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/dopamine-detox\/1-page-summary#the-dark-side-of-dopamine\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">why we spend so much time on social media<\/a> even when it makes us feel worse about ourselves. As you scroll through social media, the anticipation of receiving likes and other forms of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/social-proof-bias\/\">social validation<\/a> activates the reward centers in your brain, releasing dopamine\u2014the neurotransmitter released in anticipation of pleasurable activity. When you receive positive feedback, your brain associates the experience with pleasure and reinforces your desire to seek out more of it. This creates a cycle of reward-seeking behavior that can become addictive and prevent you from focusing on more important tasks or people.<br><br>To break this addictive cycle and access screens in a way that you feel good about, Meurisse recommends that you engage in a so-called dopamine detox. <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/dopamine-detox\/1-page-summary#the-total-detox\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Try a total detox<\/a>, during which you eliminate all dopamine-inducing behaviors\u2014such as accessing the internet or eating sugar\u2014for 24 to 48 hours and fill your time with low-stimulation activities such as journaling. Alternatively, <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/dopamine-detox\/1-page-summary#the-limited-detox\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">try a limited detox<\/a>, which involves eliminating your most significant source of dopamine for an extended period of time. Meurisse recommends that <em>you<\/em> decide what to cut out; however, you could choose to cut out whatever bothers your family or friends the most.&nbsp;<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How well do you give other people your time and attention? What are some practical ways to focus on relationships that you want to maintain? In today&#8217;s world, it&#8217;s easy to become distracted from what&#8217;s really important because of phones and other technology. With the help of The Good Life by Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz, you can give the people you love the attention they deserve. 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