{"id":107181,"date":"2023-07-01T12:19:44","date_gmt":"2023-07-01T16:19:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/?p=107181"},"modified":"2026-05-24T13:02:15","modified_gmt":"2026-05-24T17:02:15","slug":"importance-of-positive-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/importance-of-positive-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"The Importance of Positive Relationships for a Good Life"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Do relationships often seem to come second in your life? How would things change if you prioritized positive relationships?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>The Good Life<\/em> by Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz argues that positive relationships are what make life worth living. But, many people tend to put their relationships on the back burner and don&#8217;t even realize the effect it has on their life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Keep reading to understand the importance of positive relationships if you want to live the good life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-importance-of-positive-relationships\">The Importance of Positive Relationships<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Not surprisingly, the importance of positive relationships goes all the way back into antiquity. Waldinger and Schulz argue that <strong>a good life consists of what Greek philosopher Aristotle called <em>eudaimonia<\/em> and what scholars today call \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/hub\/science\/psychology\/hedonic-and-eudaimonic-happiness\/\">eudaimonic happiness<\/a>.<\/strong>\u201d Eudaimonia represents a sort of flourishing, and it\u2019s neither a temporary state of being nor a goal you can achieve. Rather, eudaimonia is a long-term sense of contentment or purpose\u2014the concept you\u2019re referring to when you say, \u201cI\u2019m happy with my life.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Waldinger and Schulz specify that this good life\u2014this eudaimonic happiness\u2014depends mostly on the <em>quality <\/em>(not the quantity) of your relationships and how often you interact with others. In other words, having many friends won\u2019t improve your life if they\u2019re all toxic. Having many friends won\u2019t improve your life if they\u2019re all toxic. Positive relationships contribute to your happiness because they <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/how-to-improve-your-overall-health\/\">improve your health<\/a>; these relationships act as a buffer to life\u2019s many health-reducing stressors (such as old age).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/having-sex-wanting-intimacy\/201406\/the-hidden-danger-trying-get-along-everyone\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Relationships that <em>aren\u2019t <\/em>high-quality don\u2019t buffer you against stressors<\/a>; they may do the opposite\u2014even if you have many of them. One study found an association between people who had many \u201cambivalent\u201d relationships\u2014relationships that included both good and bad interchanges\u2014and shorter telomeres (the ends of chromosomes), which is thought to be a key sign of aging.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: Like Waldinger and Schulz, Aristotle considered relationships a necessary component of eudaimonia. His <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/nicomachean-ethics\/\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Nicomachean Ethics<\/em><\/a> has two full books on friendship, which he considered a virtue that contributes to a happy life.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Positive relationships also help prevent loneliness,<\/strong> the feeling you get when you have less social interaction than you desire. Waldinger and Schulz cite several surveys that indicate that people worldwide are increasingly lonely and that this loneliness negatively affects our mental and physical health. The authors suggest that loneliness is bad for us because it triggers a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/stress-response-in-the-body\/\">stress response<\/a> from our evolutionary history: Back when we relied on tribal communities for survival, being left alone often meant death\u2014loneliness kickstarted a stress response that helped us survive even without our tribe. But in the modern world, many people are chronically lonely and so under constant stress, which harms our mental and physical health.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>Loneliness Versus <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/social-alienation\/\">Social Isolation<\/a><\/strong><br><br>A 2023 meta-analysis of 90 studies (published the year after <em>The Good Life<\/em>) confirmed that both loneliness (the subjective feeling of not having enough social connections) and social isolation (the objective reality of lacking social connections) <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nature.com\/articles\/s41562-023-01617-6.epdf?sharing_token=0SQPp2JVAPiv2NWYNBmqk9RgN0jAjWel9jnR3ZoTv0Pp6WiL6o0rsAZrTmzL_UN0RjM7oHAvV5vR55x3Wh_YbGfM4vlQ0I2nnpAv3ZNsLPO_HjyIRuAdr8o8w0CUEZRYbPhqm6Lp_tHPgduc5P9vQVZicMAgXmOKgj9Zi6GCgKVr6lDODd38ZlKS_8BIH6AsrXVo-KE2F9DkSTxNlYmxhw%3D%3D&amp;tracking_referrer=www.cnn.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">negatively impact physical and mental health<\/a>. This finding mattered because previous studies that drew a link between loneliness and negative health effects drew criticism, in part due to the studies\u2019 limited scope.&nbsp;<br><br>Like Waldinger and Schulz, this analysis suggests that loneliness is harmful because it\u2019s a chronic stressor. However, it found that social isolation harms you more than loneliness does.<em> <\/em>One of the review\u2019s authors proposes that this is because <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cnn.com\/2023\/06\/19\/health\/loneliness-social-isolation-early-death-risk-wellness\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">social isolation is more stress-inducing than loneliness<\/a>. People who feel lonely but who have access to social connections are better able to handle the stress of loneliness because of the relationships they have. This theory supports Waldinger and Schulz\u2019s argument that loneliness is bad for us because it used to be a death sentence: Feeling lonely is a warning sign to monitor our social isolation and make sure we haven\u2019t been left behind to fend for ourselves.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>We Don\u2019t Prioritize Relationships<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Waldinger and Schulz assert that many people struggle to prioritize positive relationships\u2014despite their clear importance\u2014for two related reasons. First, cultures worldwide often teach that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/achieving-financial-success\/\">financial success<\/a> will guarantee happiness. As a result, <strong>we prioritize money over relationships<\/strong>. However, the idea that financial success guarantees happiness is mostly a myth. The authors acknowledge that if you don\u2019t have enough money to cover fundamental expenses, such as food, then making more money increases your happiness. But once you make enough money to cover those fundamentals, making more money won\u2019t make you happier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>How Money Impacts Happiness<\/strong><br><br>Unlike Waldinger and Schulz, Morgan Housel suggests in <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-psychology-of-money\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>The Psychology of Money<\/em><\/a> that you may care about money in part because of how it impacts your relationships. Specifically, you may want money so <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-psychology-of-money\/part-2#lesson-7-status-symbols-dont-buy-respect\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">you can buy status symbols because you think this will buy you respect<\/a>. However, Housel argues that this is a mistake: You might <em>think <\/em>that people admiring your possessions indicates that they admire you, but in reality, these people are imagining how much people would admire <em>them <\/em>if they owned the same things.&nbsp;<br><br>Like Waldinger and Schulz, Housel warns against constantly trying to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/make-more-money\/\">make more money<\/a> in pursuit of happiness. This is a losing game: Unless you\u2019re the richest person in the world, <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-psychology-of-money\/part-2#how-to-be-happy-with-enough\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">someone will always have more money than you<\/a>\u2014so if you\u2019re always comparing yourself to someone richer, you\u2019ll never be satisfied. Moreover, <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/the-psychology-of-money\/part-2#lesson-6-be-happy-with-enough\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">constantly trying to make more can lead to you losing everything<\/a> if you risk the money you have and need to make even <em>more <\/em>money that you don\u2019t need. So figure out how much money will allow you to live your desired lifestyle (even if that\u2019s slightly more than what covers your fundamental expenses), then stop chasing a more lavish lifestyle.&nbsp;<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Second, <strong>people struggle to prioritize relationships because we\u2019re bad at \u201caffective forecasting<\/strong>\u201d\u2014anticipating our emotional reactions to various events. Waldinger and Schulz explain that humans are biologically programmed to prioritize whatever provides the most obvious benefit\u2014and often, the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shortform.com\/blog\/benefits-of-community\/\">benefits of relationships<\/a> are less obvious. Moreover, when making decisions, we tend to focus more on what might go <em>wrong<\/em> than what might go <em>right<\/em>. As a result, we often prioritize whatever will make us more money (which is obviously beneficial) rather than relationships (which might go terribly wrong and ruin our lives).&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>(Shortform note: There may be additional reasons we tend to prioritize our careers over our relationships. Experts point out that we\u2019re not just bad at anticipating our emotional reactions to events; <a href=\"https:\/\/positivepsychology.com\/affective-forecasting\/#psychology-affective-forecasting\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">we\u2019re also bad at predicting how <em>long <\/em>we\u2019ll feel those reactions<\/a>. So you might chase a promotion because you think it\u2019ll make you happy for a long time when, in reality, that boost is short-lived. Alternatively, Clayton Christensen suggests in <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/how-will-you-measure-your-life\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>How Will You Measure Your Life?<\/em><\/a> that we may prioritize our careers over our relationships because our loved ones are less demanding than our boss. Thus, <a href=\"https:\/\/shortform.com\/app\/book\/how-will-you-measure-your-life\/part-2-chapter-4#invest-in-your-relationships\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">we pay less attention to our loved ones<\/a>\u2014and we risk not noticing that our relationships are going poorly until it\u2019s too late to fix them.)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do relationships often seem to come second in your life? How would things change if you prioritized positive relationships? The Good Life by Robert Waldinger and Marc Schulz argues that positive relationships are what make life worth living. But, many people tend to put their relationships on the back burner and don&#8217;t even realize the effect it has on their life. 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